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  • This is passive agressive behavior. The "jokes" he's making are not funny; they are destructive. People who make comments like this generally have underlying anger issues that have never been resolved. This is not a healthy situation for you, because over time, you will end up feeling rejected and worthless. In my experience, it's pointless to try to talk to people like this. They always explain away their behavior, and tell you that you are too sensitive, and can't you take a joke, bla bla blah- as if YOU are the one with the problem! So do you want to spend your life hanging around with someone who would treat you and possibly your kids like this? Do you want your self esteem to be torn down bit by bit? If so, stay with the guy. He'll do it, and in a rather short time too.
  • I wouldn't go as far as Snowberry... Extremely... EXTREME.. Obviously the Walmart saying he's going to leave you is a bit of banter! You have a relationship.. Teasing eachother is more than normal! The only thing that actually sounds negative is him being 'mean and laughing'.. What exactly is he doing? Without knowing it's hard to really give advice about that part... But the rest of it sounds like he's treating you the same as his friends (Joking that he will leave you in walmart) which can only be good in a relationship? Right?
  • Maybe it is his innocent sense of humor. However, you should talk with him. Tell him your concerns. He may be defensive when you talk to him. Tell him you appreciate his sense of humor otherwise, but these bother you somewhat. These could also be WARNING signs of deeper issues. You may be best to find someone who treats you as the Princess that you probably are.
  • Depending on how long you have been with the guy I would say in my opinion depending if he is young or old is that he is being abit immature about things. He should realise that you have feelings and that you dont wanna be treated that way. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. If this problem persists then you should consider moving on to someone who is gonna treat you better.

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