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nobody can help you but yourself. all i can tell you is that to take things slownly...if youve had a bad past its better to be safe than sorry! you go at your own pace though..dont let anyone or anything push you.
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You have a lot of unforgiveness in your heart. Until you forgive those who hurt you in the past you will always carry the scars of mistrust with you. It is not easy but it is possible and even necessary to have a complete life. Forgiving doesn't mean that what they did is ok nor do you have to have any contact with them. Forgiveness is for your own benefit not theirs. They don't even have to know you've forgiven them. Keeping the negative feelings in your heart will only hurt you not the ones who deserve the hurt. I hope this will help you and I will pray for your situation. God Bless.
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You just have to trust and move one day at a time. He will show you not to worry in time.
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I have been in your shoes... I still am. I fear trusting people because it seems it only gets me hurt. I've taken chances that stomped on my heart immediately, and I've taken chances that have made me so happy, only to end in heartache again. It's a risk, but it's also part of life. You can sit in your room and not trust anyone but yourself, but where is that going to get you? It's the risks you're willing to take that make you who you are in the end. He is not your past... everyone deserves a chance.
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You don't forget your past. You put it in perspective. You force your self to risk a little more than is comfortable, over and over. Until finally you have escaped the inappropriate caution that your past burdened you with. It will take time. If you explain this to him, he will understand if he is the right man for the job of helping you overcome your past.
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just take a chance and be strong its normal to take a risk for every step the you take for every move that u've made ..its just how you handle it..be strong time heals. i had that experience too coz my bf still affected with his ex gf aho cheated him..
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