why would you say you want to do it, how do you know you do, as you said you dont know what it is, i wouldnt even begin to explain as your far to young to be thinking about things like that yet, sounds to me like you want to do it because your being pressured into it, you know its something you shouldnt be doing, if you thought it was ok i`m sure you would ask someone you knew about it, so you definately know its wrong

If you dont exactly know ur terms than i say that u dont sound ready.. u need to learn more about sex and stuff like that before u try anything!

Fingering is part of fore-play, and it involves the insertion of one or more fingers into the vagina, or, during male homosexual sex, the anus. Whether or not you would bleed during or after this is dependant on a few things. One, if your hymen is still intact, the "breaking" of it during this act could cause a small amount of bleeding. Secondly, if your boyfriend has not taken the proper precautions and trimmed and cleaned his fingernails, or is not gentle enough, this could also cause some bleeding and discomfort. Personally, I think you are far, far too young to be engaging in sexual activity. Fingering might not be sex, but it is still something that you should only do with someone you love, who loves you, and whom you have a relationship of mutual respect and trust with. If you are, however, determined to go ahead with it, please insist that your boyfriend is very gentle, and go at a pace that suits and is comfortable for you. While I dread the idea of you having sex, if things progress to that stage, contraception is an absolute must.

I am sorry but 13 is way too young to even have a boyfriend much less be sexually active with him. I think that you should definitely wait to get sexually involved with someone. Just because you don't have intercourse that doesn't mean that you aren't sexually active. You can also catch some kinds of sexually transmitted diseases from this type of intimacy. Really, I think that you are just too young to handle this kind of situation.

I would not begin to try and improve upon PrettyPirate's answer, but I would like you to think about why you were considering doing it before you knew what it was all about? It should stem from a natural progression of deep intimacy, something too advanced at this stage in your life. Why not enjoy other less intimate acts of closeness? (Holding hands, hugging, or kissing.) Don't let anyone encourage you to do or try something you don't want or need in your life. You have many years to explore your sexuality when you're ready--and it's mutual.

Fingering is like intercourse, but your partner uses a finger instead of a penis. If you have a hymen (the piece of skin that blocks the vagina until intercourse, usually considered proof of virginity), fingering will almost always break it, which is painful and bloody. (Also remember that any time you are bleeding or have a cut, it's easier to catch certain sexually transmitted infections, such as HIV / AIDS or hepatitis.) Thirteen is too young for this, physically and emotionally. And it's also too young to be able to get a partner to stop from moving on to other activities. Brie, it sounds like you're having a hard time maintaining limits with this boy already. Don't make things worse by encouraging him by allowing him penetration AT ALL, not even with a finger. Try to delay this much intimacy until you are at least sixteen. Do you think you will still be with this boy at sixteen? If he can't wait, he's not worth your devotion. Also, picture yourself with someone when you ARE sixteen, or eighteen, or twenty, trying to explain why you got started on sexual intimacy so early with a boy who passed out of your life so quickly. Hold off on this, Brie.

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Call me and i will tell you, what it is.

Fingering,is the act of inserting the finger (usually) into the virgina,this can happen ither with a boy or with another girl,in my case the first time was when another girl did it to me,I was only 12 she was 14,she was gentle,I didn't mind it,i believe that you are 13, if you want to try it, go for it,you are old enough to say NO if you don't want to go further,most boys are quite happy with just fingering at your age,or let another girl do it to you first.

u can hve varous meaning of fingering depending on the situation. in computer application fingering means the way by which we type our letter........in slang language love fingers has desribed it very well.

13 ?? Well Im 14 Annd Haviin Sex Theres Nuffin Wrong With It But Dont Make Them Do Sumin You Do Not Want To Do Good Luck xx

Fingering is the choice of which fingers and hand positions to use when playing certain instruments. For example, when fingering the saxophone, chords or melodies can often be played with a variety of different assignments of fingers to played keys (false fingering). Fingering, in this context, is the choice of which finger to use for which key, for each note. Fingering typically changes throughout a piece; the challenge of choosing good fingering for a piece is to make the hand movements as comfortable as possible without changing hand position too often. A fingering can be the result of the working process of the composer, who puts it into his manuscript, an editor, who adds it into the printed score, or the performer, who puts his own fingering in the score or in his performance