How important is "dirty talk" in a relationship?
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Curious_Cat
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Not at all in mine... we just go at it without talking...
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I don't find anything "sexy" about talking dirt My husband tries and all I can do is just laugh at him
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i wouldnt say it's important....rather a personal choice....for me personaly i love it so does my partner...its kinda like role playing....it's a real turn on.....just having plain old silent sex is intimate and romantic....but spice it up some time's and yell out "fck me"in a real assertive way,and get down and dirty.....ooohhhhhhh it feels good :)and im sure ur partner will be ummmmmmmmm very excited he he
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My fiance has a potty mouth and I love it. I've been in other relationships that weren't so vocal and I prefer the nasty talk :) It's not important per se but whatever floats your boat eh? If neither of you like, don't do it. If one doesn't like it then that's a sticky situation. For me, it wouldn't make or break a relationship.
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Sexually and in private I see nothing wrong with it - If both are into it
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Lets hope everyone is to busy for talking!
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It would be as important as the TWO involved wanted it to be, they both have to enjoy it for it to be a good thing.
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I like it. Don't have to guess when and how she wants to bump naughty bits.
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It totally depends on the people in the relationship; some people are made really uncomfortable by dirty talk...I'm not one of those. I do more dirty talking than my husband, and we both enjoy it very much.
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Not THAT important, but preferred.
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I think it all depends on the people involved in the relatioship, I don't so much like the dirty talk and in my relatioship it isn't very important. However, I have friends who thrive on the nasty talk.
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it depends on the people in the relationship! even for people who enjoy it, it may or may not be an important factor. do they need it to be satisfied or it's just a bonus? obviously, these things are going to vary from person to person.
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It's @#*&^% semi-important. Sorry...but it can touch the beast in all of us!
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It depends on the person, if they're comfortable with it, and what the mutual comfort levels are. Some stuff just sounds silly, other stuff is too creepy for my tastes. Finding a happy medium through open and honest communication is the best way to find out what both people life. That said, it's awesome when someone normally quiet and reserved comes out with something dirty!
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For me, it is important. I don't like to just poke and jab. Words stimulate me. Dirty words take it to another level. My partner does not like to do that kind of thing so the sex is not that great. The good part of that for her is that it takes me a lot longer to reach a climax as I am less motivated. She can have many orgasms if she keeps her mouth shut with me.
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"Dirty Talk" can be a slippery slope. I think you need to make sure that you are your partner have previously established boundries or the lack there of, prior to performing anything of the kind. If the two of you are on the same page, the dirty talk can be amazing and help take the two of you to new areas. If you are both not on the same page and you fire off something that the other considers "nasty" or offensive, then you will then be introduced to the term, "Buzz Kill" . Communication is the key!
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I love it!! But my timing needs some work. Oh you hot mamma, I like the way your muscles pulsate when you pass the lucky charms (Then I lick my lips)
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VERY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My personal opinion is that dirty talk is great....Who want's clean talk while having sex....I don't think body parts will work as well saying.."Hump me my pookie wookie smookie" I don't think your mans norton would appreciate it at all and it might just kill the mood.
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part of the reason I very recently split up is because of a lack of intimacy and maybe the 'dirty talk' comes under that heading. Of course there were other more important reasons for breaking up but the lack of this did not help
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Not at all. A relationship will not get better or stronger for it nor will it die because you don't do it. There are better ways to build and sustain a relationship than through language. If you LIKE it, fine, tell your partner, but if they don't, then don't forcve them to do it and find another way to relate.
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I LOVE IT........ But wouldn't care if I didn't have it. It is not a big thing but if you like it do it. If you don't than don't. It wont make or brake your sex life.
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my boyfriend of 3 years loves to talk dirty and wants me to do it to him...while its hard for me ,i do try to accomidate him.as he points out........sometimes there are things u do u might not ordinarily do in a relationship that pleases your partner.its all about how much u love your partner he says and sometimes what u get in return is well worth doing what he wants.
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Me and my boyfriend used to ahve phone sex a lot when we lived quite far away from eachother and talking dirty came natural to me. but now he asks me to talk to him during sex and rather than enjoying the sex I'm just thinking what I can say. No time for talking I say
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When I got a GF riding me I like to talk dirty to her... BUT ONLY if shes into potty mouth sex talk...
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I'd rather skip the talk and cut to the chase! It's more fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dirty talk has to be appreciated by the "listener" if you will. Someone who just isnt turned on by it wont like it. But if he/she loves it and you know it.....it is a very important part of the act.
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It really depends on how important it is to the people who say and hear it. I don't think I'm really very good at it, so it might be an issue if I was with a man who was into hearing it. Yet, I like to hear it sometimes, so it's kind of important to me that my man has a dirty mouth.
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in some of the relationships I've had it has been very very important... often would call her up on the way home from a call box, tell her what I was going to do to her when I got there, then stop off a t the next call box and continue. She would be really turned on by this time and by the time I arrived home would be sooooooooo wet and horny that we wouldn't make it out of the hall sometimes and ended up having a good boffing on the hall carpet or stairs... she also loved getting erotic mail which she could read at her leisure....... ;)
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we love it, the dirty the better. sometimes my wife will take her bra off in the garage when she gets home a little late, and when i ask her, "didn't you wear a bra today" , she'll come up with something like, "yeah, but i stopped for a drink after work,met this hot guy, one thing led to another & before i knew it we were in his car, i was topless & was sucking his cock. I just didn't bother to put it back on". She'll also tell me she likes other mens cocks better than mine & likes the way another guy's cum tastes beter than mine, etc... I think it's hottt!
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some people like it some do not my wife hate the F-word so i do not dirty talk to her that much. but some time its need to get over the final kick..
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I have only recently been asked about talking dirty during sex. I had never heard of it before as a regular expression connected with having sex. Myself, I prefer the good old old-fashion,God-given, down-to-earth kind of love-making. When the chemistry and the fire flashes and connects nothing else is needed.Dirty talk would only ruin a beautiful thing. I suppose that if I were simply into f---ing then dirty talk might be more appropriate.
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