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  • I would tell the spouse. It would be my obligation to my friend to reveal what I know about his/her spouse. I would do more damage by not saying nothing and would be eaten up with guilt. I wouldn't be a good friend if I didn't fess up. ...One more clarifying question... Am I the one cheating with his wife? If that's the case, heck no, I wouldn't say a word...
  • If its a close friend type neighbor I would say something. But if its a neighbor who I dont really speak to, keep my nose in my own business. The truth is bound to come out.
  • A similar thing happened to my mother. She saw the husband of a good friend on an airplane with another woman (it had long been suspected that he was having an affair with her but the wife didn't want to start divorce proceedings without being sure). My mother waited by the door till they deplaned and made it a point to say hello to him and to introduce himself to the girlfriend ("Nice to meet you, I'm his wife's best friend."). When she got home she called her friend's sister and they both decided that the truth needed to out so the sister passed the information along. In this case the wife was already suspicious and well on the road to ending the marriage. One should, however be aware that you might not be believed when passing on information about a cheating spouse. Denial is a powerful thing. Be prepared that the messenger may indeed be shot and, if this person is a friend you would like to keep, make it clear that you are still there for him/her if they need you.
  • I played tennis on a tennis team with a guy who was cheating on his wife. I asked him about it and he bragged about the girlfriend and said it was not something he would stop. I am the type of person who does not like to be around a person who can dimiss their family like that. I stated my POV and quit the team. When asked why I quit, I said to he group, "Ask [Bob]" left.

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