ANSWERS: 9
  • cheaters always lie
  • I would lie, I might not "want" to be with them but a bird in the hand.....women are like cars, always looking to trade up for a better model... you are cheating so why would you tell, doesn't make sense
  • you need to tell them, cheating is selfish! you are lying already by cheating, why stop the lying now! If you tell the truth, maybe you have a chance to work things out. but 99.9% of cheaters can't admit it.
  • Well, hell, you've lied to far why stop now...tell more lies, compound the problem, make it worse...no, couldn't possibly be worse could it. So, what is one more lie to the past four years?
  • I personally would never be in in this situation, but I would think that human nature dictates to lie oneself out of a potential blow up.
  • If you're a cheat you're a cheat, so you would lie.
  • I'd just come right out and tell the truth. Knowing me, lying like that would be ripping me apart inside anway, so it would be somewhat a relief to have the oppurtunity.
  • I would tell the truth. If your with someone for a few years, and cheating...then that relationship is not for you its just a convience. Don't age the person your with, don't hurt them anymore than you have to..but don't keep them hanging onto something thats not going to happen...a future together. I think a line is cross when one cheats, so I would feel gulity especially if it was with someone that I was in a long term committed relationship with. Realistically, that person sort of becomes your best friend, and to give that up for a one night stand, or a fling wouldn't be worth it to me.
  • Well seeing how I swear I somewhere along the line have some jewish in me. Mostly because I always feel like crap when I do something I am not supposed to. I would simply be honest with them.

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