If you had it to do over again, would you marry your spouse?
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ANSWERS: 100
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Yeah but at a different point in my life.
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha. This question makes me laugh. No, as evidenced by the divorce proceedings we're going through right now.
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Yes...although I always tell him that next time I am marrying for money....
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This is a difficult question First of all, most peoples' attitude when they get married is "Heck, yes!", not "Well.....OK, if we have to"...:-D. Given that, I would think most people would get married again if you gave them a "redo". Second, even if we grant people foreknowledge of subsequent events for their chance to repeat the marriage decision, It's a little unfair to ask them to look at a known scenario (whatever happens after they got married), speculate what might have happened had they not gotten married and then chose between them. A simple analogy: You bet $1 and win whatever sum ($1, $10, $0.05...) it doesn't really matter. Then someone comes up to you and says "OK, here's an option. Accept that outcome, or give back your winnings and this time bet that same dollar on a game where your potential payoff is completely unknown". Would you take that bet? I'm not sure I would.... Finally, if anyone answers in the negative and his or her spouse finds out, things could get mighty cold at certain Answerbaggers' homes....;-D....
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In a heartbeat!!
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Yes but would he re-marry me???
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Yes, we've had a good first five years and things just keep getting better!
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Definitely not,I was married for 20 years and the whole time he cheated on me,finally after our 2 kids finished school I left and got a divorce,now he suddenly finds me attractive and wants to spend time with me, too bad I've moved on and I feel so much better, I met a nice gentleman and for the first time in my adult life I feel loved. I wish my ex all the best and I'll always care for him , but no more!!!
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knowing what i know now, no.
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First one, NO. Second one is dead. Third on, OH HELL NO.
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Yes, I'd marry him again for all the same reasons I married him for in the first place. Marriage ain't a picnic, its good hard work, but in my case its worth it.
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Yes. It may sound corny but I love her even more today.
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absolfreakinlutely
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And again and again!
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Yes, yes, yes. And in any life to come after this one.
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Yes - and I wish I could. Married for 25 years & now divorced for six months. She cheated on me more than once - with men young enough to be her son, old enough to be her father, her boss, the Deacon of our church, a co-worker with a drinking problem who "occasionally" uses crack and admitted to using prostitutes, and a tennis instructor. Unfortunately for me she is my TRUE LOVE & I can't be happy without her.
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NO
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Yes...but, I'd start training him much earlier!!!!
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Eleventy billion times over!!!!
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Yes. it takes a very special person to marry a police officer. my wife is very special. she is understanding of my occupation. the long hours, the dangers and the salary. I have been very fortunate to have her stay by my side for 41 years. she is a nurse and this really is a blessing, since we are both in the emergency services and understand each others job. I chose the right person to marry and maybe visa-versa. We are still crazy after all these years. Do it again? absolutely!
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You bet I would, time and time again.
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Good God no. Divorce him again? Absolutelty. Perhaps this sort of thing is why: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/17417 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/106223
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I actually did have it to do over again and I did marry him again.
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No, that would be unreasonable to her. LOL. Just kidding. Answer is YES!
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Yes, I would. It's my fault things didn't go right the first time. I'd like another try.
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Yes, I would have married him sooner. I don't know why I had to set a date almost a year and a half after we got engaged. If I married him sooner, he could have boned me and not been so frustrated for all of 1985 and half of 1986.
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Not bloody likely, but thx:-)
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Absolutely, without a doubt!
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I think this might be a duplicate. http://tinyurl.com/2m45g3 edit======================= LOL! Not a duplicate! My link takes you right back to this question. Sometimes the space between my ears is just......well......space!
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Absolutely not! I should have listened to what my father said before I got married – and before you ask as to what he said – I don’t’ know I wasn’t listening!
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I would have to say yes, I am just not up to training another one. j/k 26 years this month
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Mrs squirrel and I have been having problems lately. At the moment I would have to say no I wouldn't.:(
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i'm not married yet, but i'd like to think that if i was i'd be willing to do it all again with the same person
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i'm not married yet, but i'd like to think that if i was i'd be willing to do it all again with the same person
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Yes i would even thou my husband is 44 and i am 25 we have the best communication ever.
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You bet! I think we had enough time between the time we started dating and the time we got married to know what was going on. When we're apart for an extended period of time and we miss eachother, it just confirms to me that I would remarry him any day of the week!
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Yes, absolutely!
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YES!! ABSOULUTELY!! FOR SURE!! She's a good patient Woman.
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No..was the biggest mistake I ever made the first time..definately not something I would do over
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Absolutely. Can't think of a more wonderful person to spend my whole life with than him. And we still spend every day together, work together, cook together, enjoy the same hobbies and likes/dislikes.
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Ummmm - Yep, he's still cute & funny.
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Absolutely!! Without a doubt...YES!!! He's the best thing that's ever happened to me.
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No, I would just leave the ass and take the children. He's not even as good as a canoli.
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Without question Yes.
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Yes.
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yes 100%, it's the best day of your life and you have a partner in life that know you inside out.
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YES, YES, YES! He is the best thing that has happened to me! We have been married for 10 years, dated 2 = (12 years total) and I love him more and more each day! He has given me a 2 beautiful daughters and a good life! YES I would marry him again!
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yes, in a quick minute
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I haven't married anyone. I'd make that same choice again.
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Yes, No one else has enough patience to put up with my ass and besides he is a great husband and father.
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for sure I would. He is my best friend. We have been together for over 13 years. I couldn't imagine my life without him
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Absolutely Yes!
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Yes I would marry him every day if I could. He was the most lovinng wonderful person that ever lived.
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Yes but i would wait longer until his daughter is 18 heheheheh!
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yes, id marry him everyday if i could.
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Absolutely! But, this time around, I'd treat her SO much better and be a better husband!
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Yes, and when we die ,I will find her in the next life and marry her again. but whithout Christ in the center nothings gonna work right. it doesnt get easier,the rewards get better.
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Yes I would.
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I'd make sure to not venture into the same state again. We did make my little sweety pie daughter though.
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Absolutely!
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I would - I love wedding cake. ;-)
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Yes. :)
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No not at all , though we do make better friends
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Absolutely.
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No :)
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Absolutely. My second husband is everything my first husband was not. I am very, very happy.
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First time or second time? lol! Yes in both cases since, changing that would chang things I don't want changed!!!
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Yes I would ...after 32 years he still kisses my hand in the morning and at night,opens car doors,honest and never raised his voice to me, and 32 years is along time to never once yell or call me a bad name. He also never curses in front of me. I'd be a fool not to marry him again:)
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"Oh Hell NO!" hehehehe :D
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No. Two were real @ssholes and the other is dead.
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I think this is pretty much this one: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/164634
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NO
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no, i don't need to be hit in the head with a shovel again.
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The first one, NO. the second one, definately.
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Maybe, maybe not....For sure I wouldn't have married so young. I was 19 and am still married to him. It will be 35 years in January. Aw hell, My answer is "No"!! lol
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The first one not if you paid me a million bucks. He makes ass look good. The second one I would slit my own horse's throat to have been able to acctually have that ceremony and say "I do" to. (Just so you know one of the reasons I left the first one was that horse.)
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My husband? Yes! In a heartbeat. My ex-husband? That one is harder. I want to say no, except then I wouldn't have my son. I can't imagine not having my son. So I guess it has to be a qualified yes.
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Yes...
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Yes.
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I might if I could see that we'd matured enough to avoid the obstacles that contributed to ruining the first marriage.
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Absolutely.
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Yes...a million times over...he is my hero, my protector, my lover and closest friend. He can finish my sentences, we laugh, have fun like newly weds, and every day is fresh and new. My heart still skips a beat when he gets home from work. He once told me if I could give you the moon, I would but we couldn't afford anything...food for the kids was a big deal...but we have come up...and he has given me the moon and more...he gave me him...and I would marry him again in a second
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Yes...a million times over...he is my hero, my protector, my lover and closest friend. He can finish my sentences, we laugh, have fun like newly weds, and every day is fresh and new. My heart still skips a beat when he gets home from work. He once told me if I could give you the moon, I would but we couldn't afford anything...food for the kids was a big deal...but we have come up...and he has given me the moon and more...he gave me him...and I would marry him again in a second
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Hell no that's why we're divorced nearly 11 years You couldn't pay me enough to remarry her
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NO!!Way in hell.
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Sad to say No : (
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nope I wouldn't have, but I most definately would have slept with either of them.
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nope I wouldn't have, but I most definately would have slept with either of them.
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Im going thru seperation right now,and my answer would be,I would never marry him again,I saw him thru his drug abuse, and found out hes been cheating on me,Im soooo done! married 27 years on Oct.5.
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Ive been married for 28yrs. and i would never marry him again,he had a prob. with drug addiction,saw him thru that,and just a bout 3 mths. ago, found him cheating,IN OUR BED!! EEEWWW!!Guess I better stay outta the marriage relationship section,I might give tainted answers.
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If I had a chance to do it over and HAD to get married, I would choose my husband again. If I didn't have to get married, I don't know that I would. I'd still choose to be with my husband....just not sure that I would walk down the aisle again....it changes things.
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most definately!!!! WE HAVE ONLY BEEN MARRIED 3 YEARS AND AS CORNY AS IT MAY SOUND THESE HAVE BEEN THE HAPPIEST YEARS OF MY LIFE SO FAR. IT IS SO CRAZY WE ARE SO DIFFERENT BUT AT THE SAME TIME SO A LIKE. I WOULD MARRY HIM MILLION MORE TIMES.
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Absolutely, in a heartbeat!
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no . as much as i love her . and i cant imagine my life without her . i wish i had never left my homeland . so no . more than anything i want to be home , and thats still after 18 years .
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my home land is scotland .a place i miss more every day .but dont let me put you on a sad trip . ive had great times with my wife and love her very much but i miss my family and home
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Yeah...I think I'll keep him!
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Again and again and again.
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Probably, but then again, I would probably live somewhere else and never meet her.
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I have been married over 20 yearsand I would not trade her for anyone. She is my soul mate, and life would not be the same without her. I new from the beggining I wanted to marry her. And I would again without hesitation
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Oh, defo.
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