What can you do if both of your parents dislike you because you remind them of the other parent?
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ANSWERS: 6
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That's a very sad thing for anyone to have to deal with. A parent should never tell a child that. All a kid can do is tell their parent how that makes them feel. One would hope that would make the parent think about it and stop doing it ... unfortunately, I know that might now happen though.
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Adopt a newer, and more mature set of parents.
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My parents divorced when I was about 2 and as I grew up every time my Mom got mad at me she told me "You're just like your father! You're just as stupid as he is!" My Dad hardly ever came around after the divorce so I didn't know if I was like him or not. I know now that I'm nothing like him. It really hurt when I was a kid and needed parental love and guidance. I would just let her rant and rave and then go to my room and get lost in a book. I learned to not let her upset me. She was probably more mad at herself than at me. I just learned to rely on myself and I believe it made me a better person in the end.
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Such parents are unnatural. No "normal" parent can ever dislike his/her child so what you are dealing with are babies who are masquerading as grownups...if you look closely you can see the rattles and bottles and diapers surrounding them. I'd write them off. They are anomalies, weird and way beyond any help anyone but a psychiatrist could give them. Too bad they never grew up. :)
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They must not like each other then? so they are seperated ? if you are a grown up and it doesnt feel good to be around them, for me I would have to see them less, I hope you do not let this get you down, there are lots of other people out there that can make you feel positive, about who you are.
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these do not sound like parents who have their priorities straight. my advice to you is to grow up and NOT be like your own parents.
Mrs. C 
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