Is it ok to ask my bf to try Viagra?

well, he doesn't need it. I thought men were able to get it just for fun, too (from their doctor of course).

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

That could be true .. not sure.

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by Over and Out on August 9th, 2009

no he does not. But I would like to go 2 rounds some day

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

A friend of mine told me he took it just for a laugh and was running around for 12 hours with a hard on, so tell him to be careful.
lol!

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by Dodgy Dog in a Sable COAT on August 9th, 2009

oh my!

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

he did.. he said he doens't wan to because of the long term side effects. I think he thinks something terrible will happen.
I'm not goingt o push it. I might ask a while down the road.

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

Yeah, he'll probably come around to the idea soon.

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by DustFaceKilla on August 9th, 2009

possibly

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

lol

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by DustFaceKilla on August 10th, 2009

:( not because he has ED, but maybe for one wild night..

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

I dropped the whole thing.

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by Violet on August 30th, 2009

lol! you're so funny! +6

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by Violet on August 14th, 2009

;-)

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by gtravels loves her life penguin on August 14th, 2009

a realistic substitute? yaaa... not the same..
and I'm nor going to get a new bf just because I want to have more than one round.
Not being able to go more than once, can be fixed with Viagra. That doesn't sounds like a toy to me

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by Violet on August 13th, 2009

Putting my usual attempts at humor aside, taking prescription drugs for 'the hell of it' is a course of action I'd advise against, unless you're pre-disposed to that sort of thing anyway. You asked us if it was 'ok to ask him', I'm answering, 'no, it's amoral and unethical'. I apologize in advance if this was not the answer you were hoping for. On a more positive note, you have a fortunate boyfriend in that you want him more than once at a time. When my wife wants that, I know I'm more than happy to oblige.

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by Aksafari on August 13th, 2009

when I ask questions, I'm usually prepared for all types of answers. I don't expect to hear what I want. I was looking for all kinds of views on this particular question.
Do you think is he works out more, he'll be able to go more than one round? (after a fair amount of time)

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by Violet on August 13th, 2009

I'd say yes to that. Better cardio-vascular health would be nothing but a benefit to his performance. Being even slightly overweight can affect his ability to maintain an erection. Or even being out of shape, but not necessarily overweight. Fitness does affect performance.

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by Aksafari on August 13th, 2009

oh wow, that makes me feel a lot better. He is out of shape, but I like him like that. He had said he's be less tired all the time if he worked out. I didn't want him to work out, because I like him a bit chubby.

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by Violet on August 13th, 2009

I would suggest some training with foreplay techniques, oral methods, or toys to satisfy YOU first, then go to 'the real deal' so he gets his, and you get yours again! I LOVE that method!

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by Aksafari on August 14th, 2009

he's really good at oral, we got a rabbit vibrator. He's just been lazy lately. He never has energy.

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by Violet on August 14th, 2009

no excuse for lazy! oral should be HIS pleasure as well as yours. Maybe he needs to see the doctor about his thyroid or something. How could he not be excited about you naked??? Making my wife die of pleasure is the best thing in the world! Obviously something has changed lately with him. Figure out what it is without asking him, otherwise it may have a 'jinx' affect, you know? Like someone wanting to do something until they're asked to do it.

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by Aksafari on August 14th, 2009

I also think it could be his thyroid, and he gets SO mad at me when I ask him to see his doctor. Our anniversary is this Saturday, and if I don't get oral, sex, and more.. I'm going flip out.
He also eats like a child (all junk). I feel like his mother, when I try to get him to make healthier choices. I try to be as nice as possible, and not a controlling bitch.
I told my parents, and they even told him to eat better. My mom even made him take a vitamin!!! It was pretty funny.

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by Violet on August 14th, 2009

You have more problems with your relationship than him not wanting to bang you more than once. I'm no relationship expert, but you might want to start examining the other aspects of your relationship that may be making him feel less emotionally connected to you. His desire for you sexually will grow from more than a physical connection. He has to want to be close to you in more than just one way.

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by Aksafari on August 14th, 2009

I disagree. What we talk/argue about is no different than any other couple. I told you the worst parts, and maybe I made it seem like a bad relationship, but it is not. I feel like I gave to a very bad description of him.
As for our sexual attraction, he smacks my ass and grabs my boobs everyday. We are both very sexually attracted to each other. He works 10-11 hours doing construction, and when he comes home, he's exhausted.

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by Violet on August 14th, 2009

Then you may have no problem at all. It's entirely possible your problem is a problem of perception, not reality. Maybe your expectations are high for him after working those hours. If he's unwilling on a day he DIDN'T work, then you should ponder a change in tactics.

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by Aksafari on August 14th, 2009

good call.

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by Violet on August 14th, 2009

LOL!

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by Violet on August 13th, 2009

no, he really doesn't need it

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

then why to risk asking him such a thing... +4 , thank God I got my point giving mechanism back ... lolzzz

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by subiedrienker..fame in my name on August 10th, 2009

he's never been able to go more than one round

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by Violet on August 10th, 2009

for fun

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

I would NEVER buy it off the net, and he wouldn't either. We're not stupid.
He thiks it's an insult. He doesn't have ED, I just thought it would be fun to try once. He doens't like the idea. He thinks there's too many side effects. he could be saying that, to cover for a bigger objection

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

hmmmm, I've never heard that

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

but its on studies

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by abuser on August 9th, 2009

hm, I was just think for a one time thing..

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

play safe

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by abuser on August 9th, 2009

I highly doubt he'll take it

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

he got really mad when I brought it up

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009

That can be understandable as well, it will make him feel like he's not man enough for you. But I still dont think there is anything wrong with you asking him to try it.

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by The Extortionist on August 9th, 2009

Well, he doesn't NEED it, he doesn't have ED, I just thought it would be fun to try once

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by Violet on August 9th, 2009