If you have been married and divorced 3 times, would you be hesitant to get into another relationship for fear of being hurt again? Or would you go with your heart and take a chance as this person may be your Soul Mate?
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never having gone through that i can't really say. but i'd like to think i would take the chance. you only get to live once.
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I would want to make sure that I had my act together, learned what my mistakes and contributions were to the marriages, learn how to stop picking losers and pick people of good character. I would take the time to get to know this new person, what baggage he/she is carrying, how they broke up in the past, and how they would enhance me sharing this life together. +2
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I would certainly be hesitant and would only go forward if I was sure that I had resolved any of the issues within myself that caused the other marriages to end in divorce. Don't be so taken with the soul mate fantasy that you ignore your own problems or you'll be doomed to live out the same scenario until you face up to them. Because as it's been said "wherever you go, there you are."
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Nah, after three marriages and divorces, I think its time to happily just shack up together. ;) hee After three failed marriages, it may NOT be about the other marriage partners. I would avoid someone with that many marriages under their belts, unless their was a reason: accidental death, ex: car crash or physical illness, ex: cancer... The person sounds unstable to me otherwise.
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“'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” ~ Alfred, Lord Tennyson
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3 times?? Man, I went through that once and decided not to do it again. You're a brave person - but I'd be hesitant, for sure...
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I have a very close male friend who has been married and divorced three times and he says all the time that the only thing in common with all three was him as for each of the women it was their first. Take your time, really get to know this man, if possible talk to the ex-wives or someone else who knew them when they were married. Being wife #4 ummmmm no thank you.
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I would rather take someone who has been married 2-3 times at age 40 or 50, than someone who has never been married. My experience (not in all cases of course) is that if you are single at 40/50, there's a reason!! People get encentric as they age along since they don't have to adapt to the needs of others.
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I wouldn't trust my heart again...it's a dumbass! I would choose my next S/O carefully, but probably not marry again. Time would tell. Don't go into it with blinders on.
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There's nothing wrong with following your heart. But love doesn't always have to be a journey that stops off at the Chapel. Maybe hold of on the weddings, but not the search for love.
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