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Is it normal to still masturbate after married?

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  • by KittyBelle on November 4th, 2009

    KittyBelle

    I would think it's normal, as long as your masturbation habits don't "over-ride" having intimacy with your partner. It's good to continue to explore yourself, sexually, in order to make the times with your partner more satisfying, and if you know what makes you feel good, you can use that to teach your spouse. Plus, there may be times when your drive doesn't match up with his/hers, and that's an option to keep from upsetting your spouse. May also be times that your spouse is ill, injured, etc. that it's ok.

    The only time I see a problem with it (and I know, because I'm living with it right now) is when masturbation becomes preferable to being with your partner, to the exclusion of everything else. Including skipping work to be home alone while the spouse is at work, making up errands for the spouse to go do so that you can masturbate, etc. When given the choice between sex with your partner and masturbation (not including the partner, totally alone) then I think that is more of an issue.

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  • by schmee2369 on July 5th, 2009

    schmee2369

    Yeah.
    I do it with him still in the bed. Hell whip it out and make it all big...why I just do my own thing, and then he does his.
    Its good stuff.

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  • by Wynper on November 4th, 2009

    Wynper

    I think it is...most married people I know still masturbate.

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  • by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009

    Anonymous

    Of course it is .I masturbate with myself and my husband all the time.

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  • by sadsack on October 28th, 2009

    sadsack

    yes that's all I'm alowd to do.

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  • by Xanros on July 5th, 2009

    Xanros

    of course
    its often times a personal thing, moreso than a sexual thing. its a time for you to center yourself and just relax. you know, work out the days frustrations

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  • by Anonymous on November 28th, 2009

    Anonymous

    yes, i think there is nothing wrong with masturbation after marriage. that just means that you or your partner have to work out the differences as far as not getting enough or maybe one of the two has a very high sex drive more than the other. there are ways around that like therapy, or just telling yourself no. however, it can be difficult. look on the bright side, you have to give your partner credit for masturbating than going out and cheating on you with another person. masturbation releases hormones that help you sleep. it also i believe is actually suppose to be healthy for you in all levels.

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  • by Anonymous on November 22nd, 2009

    Anonymous

    Oh definitely normal. The wife and I have been married over 30 years and both of us still masturbate, in front of each other, seperately, and mutually.

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  • by Candi on November 10th, 2009

    Candi

    yes, not only normal but I didnt masturbate until after I was married and husband watched me do it for the very first time, I had been wanted to try it for a while and though it was a great opportunity to do it and it was

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  • by SHADOW on November 4th, 2009

    SHADOW

    WE BOTH ENJOY MUTURAL MASTURBATION SHE WILL DO ME AND I WILL DO HER IT IS SO MUCH SEXIER

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  • by anonymous on November 4th, 2009

    anonymous

    i should think so

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  • by Anonymous on December 19th, 2010

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    Yes as long as it dont over ride sex.

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