My husband and i got in a fight that was it i was done, i told him we are seperated. i got drunk that night and started have sex with another guy. i got really upset and stopped, i couldnt do it. my husband and i are trying to work things out. Do i tell
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Oh My, for a woman to go out of a relationship a man is always hurt and its mainly his pride and ego. I have no clue as to why but that is just the way it is. I believe that you should tell him the truth, there may be hell and there may not be hell but I believe that he will appreciate the fact that you were honest with him about what you did. Truth is so much easier than hiding things and lieing because when you lie once you have to cover that lie up with another and then with another and so on and so forth so be a woman and be honest for the sake of your marriage and let him know. He will know that you wont ever lie to him and hopefully you all can work things out. People are so quick to end a marriage over things that can be worked out. Through it all you have to stick it out. When you are in unity with someone you dont just give up and deceive. Good Luck sweetie!
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Let me ask you this... If he did the same thing, would you want to know? I assume that you stopped after you had started having intercourse. Your husband has a right to know, I would think. I think you would want to know if he had done the same thing.
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Do you want to tell him to relieve your guilt? If that is the reason, its best not to say anything. Its only going to hurt him and it may be a dealbreaker. If you are trying to work things out, forgive yourself for making a bad decision and learn from it. By dropping this bomb on him, its not going to do him any favors or make him feel better.
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