by anywho is feeling pretty on June 9th, 2009

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Would you consider marrying someone you met online, talked online with cam and voice for two years, and met in person twice for three weeks each time?

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  • by Jadey - Vive la difference on June 9th, 2009

    Jadey - Vive la difference

    I don't know - thinking about that right now and I would say a definitive no. I know that once in a situation like that feelings change and it may possibly be something I would consider or do when I was in that position.

    It doesn't sound like something I would do though!

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  • by Blackberry. on June 10th, 2009

    Blackberry.

    Hell no. We're going to live together for a few more years first lol.

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  • by bagicide stayed 10 months too long on June 9th, 2009

    bagicide stayed 10 months too long

    Maybe, but I'd have had to have met their family and friends and been to their workplace too. That contact is limited enough that they might be scamming you. To protect yourself, you'd want to know the company they keep pretty well.

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  • by Ditto on June 9th, 2009

    Ditto

    Not for a while. My next relationship probably won't include marriage for some time.

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  • Already did!

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  • by Pixie - jeg er elsket on June 9th, 2009

    Pixie - jeg er elsket

    Sure, i met my husband online.

    We met for 3 months each time, but even if it was 3 weeks - when you know someone that well, like online...i would feel confident.

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  • by Anon on December 9th, 2009

    Anon

    There are a few circumstances in which I would have considered such a thing, but I doubt it.

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  • by emily6 on December 9th, 2009

    emily6

    yes, I would if it felt right.

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  • by TerrysWifeKarla on December 6th, 2009

    TerrysWifeKarla

    Me and my husband met on the internet. He is from Ireland and I am from the US. We are very happy and very much inlove. We met in a chatroom and talked for hours and hours with webcam/mic and then he came here and stayed a month a few times then he came back and while he was here we decided to get married. Ive also talked to both his parents and other members of his family. So I say go for it but be careful :)

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  • by Yours Truly on November 20th, 2009

    Yours Truly

    No, not yet. You have only lived in fantasy land with this person also know as cyber world. You need to spend quality time with someone, learn all the habits and routines, family and friends, wake up day in and day out with this person...spend more time together before marriage. Try 3 years, not 3 weeks here and there.

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  • by happiness on November 20th, 2009

    happiness

    Why not, but it'd be nice if you know their credit score or criminal background first.

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  • by Kingpinn on November 20th, 2009

    Kingpinn

    No, never. You need to be physically around someone to know them.

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  • by curlysue on November 20th, 2009

    curlysue

    I dont know im not sure i would ever want too get married again.has nothing too do with online or not.

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  • by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on November 20th, 2009

    Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud

    Maybe, maybe not.

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  • by Dodgy Dog in a Sable COAT on November 20th, 2009

    Dodgy Dog in a Sable COAT

    I already did. And it didn't take two years, just 3 months of solid chatting (7 to 8 hours a day) and I knew I'd found the right woman.

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  • by Anonymous on September 20th, 2009

    Anonymous

    fuck no...

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  • by Foxy Roxy on September 20th, 2009

    Foxy Roxy

    Yes...go with your gut...

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  • by Legend In Your Own Mind on June 10th, 2009

    Legend In Your Own Mind

    I doubt I'll ever remarry.. Did it once and that was over 27 yrs ago and haven't seen her in all that time (25 yrs) and still haven't divorced.. I'm not big on creating new legal problems so NOPE! I might live with someone for the yest of my life, but unless they are utterly exceptional i seriously doubt marriage is in the cards and it would have to be a civil thing anyway. I won't go in a church again unless it's in handcuffs. ;)

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  • by Talk to Joe on June 10th, 2009

    Talk to Joe

    It depends on if you have seen there bank statments online!

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  • by _tbabyy on June 10th, 2009

    _tbabyy

    Under those circumstances , probably . I think I'd have to interact with them more face to face than what you have explained but ... it's not a definite no . My father has been married to the same woman for 10 years now . They met online . If you're thinking about marrying somebody you met online and you feel comfortable , go for it ! I wish you the best of luck .

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  • by ladyshakespeare on June 10th, 2009

    ladyshakespeare

    yeppers! I have no problem with that

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  • by Big Purple Blob in a rainCOAT on June 10th, 2009

    Big Purple Blob in a rainCOAT

    Well... I did marry someone I met online. But, not until a year and a half after I'd met him in person.

    Two years with cam and voice is admittedly a considerable amount of time, but I'd want to give it a little more face-to-face time. If nothing else, to shut the skeptics up. My hubby and I knew from day one that we would end up married, but if we had done it faster, we would have had to listen to a lot of lectures on how crazy we were. This way, nobody has a word to say except "Congratulations."

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  • by BROADWAYTHECAT on June 10th, 2009

    BROADWAYTHECAT

    not a chance.

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  • by Er. Abhi is Back on AB on June 10th, 2009

    Er. Abhi  is Back on AB

    Like hope you both are in love..so there is no reason left behind..you meet in week or a year...so ofcourse you can marry

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  • by Anonymous on June 9th, 2009

    Anonymous

    I'd have to be in love with them, but sure. ;)

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  • by alfugazi on June 9th, 2009

    alfugazi

    no I need physical interaction with that person. I would not like to meet anyone online. I find that to be such an impersonal way to meet someone. If I see someone at a party i want to get to know I just walk up to them and introduce myself and start talking to them. The traditional way of getting to know someone. You meet them, you ask them out to dinner...and the relatioonship proceeds from there. I just dont get the online thing.

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  • by Jazz-Man on June 9th, 2009

    Jazz-Man

    do the means justify the end my theory is u cant help who u fall in love with

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  • by toria418 on June 9th, 2009

    toria418

    I would want to live together and experience life together and see which side the grass is greener on.

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  • by somewhere Pll loves her dawgy on June 9th, 2009

    somewhere Pll loves her dawgy

    It would depend largely on why we had only met twice for a total of six weeks in those two years.

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  • by ashim.port on June 9th, 2009

    ashim.port

    sure

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  • by Vixen on March 14th, 2010

    Vixen

    NO.

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