I would feel guilty if I hooked up with a drunk girl, so I always turn them down. Should I keep doing this or just go for it?

You are doing the right thing, you are being a gentlemen! Keep it up! =)

You should never hook up with a girl under the influence of anything. Set aside S.T.D.'s and unwanted children for a moment. She may not remember giving you consent. You could end up with rape charges. Best to be safe and wait for the magic moment till you are both sober. Just a thought. +5 for the question.

Good for you in doing just that! You are the one that would feel guilty in the morning. Remember, what goes around, comes around ........ If you decide to go for it you might just get more than what you have bargained for.......

respect to ypu my friend

I think you're doing the right thing. You never know if they will cry rape the next day, saying you took advantage because she was drunk. I would stay away for your sake.

Your a respectable person with integrity and you will find an awesome woman because of it. PLEASE dont lower yourself to those kind of standards. remember, if its a one night stand thats one thing, it was consentual but if a girl is drunk and you take advantage of the situation, she could turn around and accuse you of rape. It HAS happened..... dont put yourself in that kind of predicament.

You have to be drunk too. That's the rule.

If you're both drunk, go for it.

You are a fine person. It is unscrupulous to take advantage of such a situation, and if you would feel guilty your conscience is telling you it would be wrong. Listen to what your head tells you.

Take my advice, pal. Never marry a drunk. You will always be secondly important to the booze.

Good for you! You have integrity. If she seems like someone you'd get to know, talk to her when you are both sober and take it from there. There should be more guys like you out there.

For goodness sake, live a little and do as you wish - for there is nothing wrong in doing this at all.

DO onto to others. What if someone was asking you this and the girl was your sister, daughter, mom, or your best friend?

You should do what you believe is right. I think you should just keep turning them down and when you find one that is not drunk it will be very good.

As a former drunk girl, I say go for it. I only ever went after guys that I liked and wouldn't hesitate to turn down a guy I didn't. If she likes you, then might as well see where things go.

Your actions will keep you out of jail. I am sure by the fact you are even asking this question you are a stand up guy who has some backbone. Lets face it......drunk woman are usually looser and are usually easier to get into bed with but it can also open up alot of issues that may surface when they sober up. Keep up the good work and any girl that gets a great guy like you will be lucky.

Try growing up, it answers a lot of the tough questions.

i think if your drunk then hell yeah go for it, but if she is drunk and yoyr not then leave it

You sound like a scholar and a gentleman, don't change keep on turning them down you modern day white knight. Guilt is a good thing it is your conscience telling you that the repurcussions of taking the drunken females up on their invitation would be morally bankrupt and legally compromised. Just imagine if the reverse was to happen and you were so drunk that the next morning you woke up next to some naked hairy male and your clothes were strewn around the bedroom lol.

Keep doing what you are doing now. People that are under the influence of any substance can have severely impaired judgement. You are being a gentleman. The best thing that you could possibly do the next time you get hit on by a drunk girl is put them in a cab to go home.

I am shocked at the number of comments telling you to go for it.

You are being decent, respectful and looking after the girl's best interests. I think you are doing exactly the right thing. Also, you are looking after yourself. There are a whole load of problems which could come from sleeping with a drunk girl. As greenstone said, one such problem is the chance that she could accuse you of rape for taking advantage of her. It is also possible that her claims would hold a significant amount of weight in court. I have known of many such cases.

Keep turning them down, that is the only decent thing to do.

Why would you feel guilty? Do you think women feel guilty if you're drunk!!!?

Of course not. Equality means equality and I firmly believe women are able to make their own choices even when they're drunk, just as a man is able to.

It could be seen as taking advantage of their condition..and also, if she is in the habit of getting drunk and hooking up, think of all the other guys she may have been with. The STD risk is therefore much higher. Steer well clear, I say.

Don't turn them down dude! You'll never get laid :P

There are a lot of shades of drunk. For example, .08 in California and you're legally drunk--it amounts to two drinks in an hour or so. So, just use your best judgment. As a former party girl, a lot of girls intend to get drunk so that their inhibitions loosen up and they can have guilt-free sex. Be safe and continue to use good judgment. Oh, and I would say NO if any of the following occurs: vomiting of any kind; No 1 or No 2 in her pants; she just had sex with your roommate; she just had sex with the football team; I could go one, but you see where I'm going, right? :) Happy hunting--be safe

there is a REASON u would feel guilty...cause u know its WRONG.....so , for your own character sake...keep doing what you do....

Ehh, just go for it....they're fun...as long as they're not pissy sloppy drunk...just drunk enough to have fun and enjoy the moment.

its the same with me. its never a good idea, unless you know her personally and would be the same if she was sober or not.

keep doing what you're doing!

if its a stranger definately not..some girls like to call rape, and that makes it hard on everyone..but if you two are pals and one thing leads to another, just make sure you have respect..its 2009, people like to get laid..sometimes even drunk girls..

The guilt you feel is actually a good thing. Even though we all should be responsible for our own actions and that includes how much we drink, at least you recognize that it's just not a good idea. I'm sure you don't want to be acussed of doing something with a gal after she sobers up and sings a differnt song about the sex. Most do not want that sort of stigma. Unfortunatley many men don't feel anything and just go for it. Even though she is the one that got herself drunk, it still is taking advantage of someone.

drunk girls are trying to get on you? go for it bro! guilt is just your mind trying to talk you out of a good time. you only live once, right?

Hook up with as many drunk girls as you are attracted to. Get them naked while you are at it.

I don't agree with people that say you are taking advantage of them. They went to the bar to get drunk and laid. If they are passed out = crime. But tipsy: all that means is they now have the courage to ask. Alcohol does just turn someone into a slut unless maybe they have a prob. Just me.

i think thats is really good of you +

I have never turned down a drunk chick for the simple reason that I was as drunk or drunker than them

Proceed with caution, less she decide to press rape charges against you in case she gets upset.

That said, you'll find that as you get older there will be fewer occasions where drunk girls are throwing themselves at you... and you will regret having not taken those opportunities.

My thoughts are that I don't think it is wise to get hooked up with anyone that is drunk because at the time they are drunk you really don't know who they are. Best to wait when they are sober.

Be the gentleman. I've hooked up with a few guys while I was drunk. She will end up hating you in the long run. Now if you were in to each other before the beer started flowing then I would say proceded with caution. It's a crazy world out there and you don't know what will happen.

Well if you feel guilty and you always turn them down then God Bless your heart. You seem to be a gentleman and have a care for women. Good for you.

I would say it depends on how drunk they are.. and i know that some girls just act a little drunk cause for some reason they feel like they can loosen up a little and not be judged for it

You sound like a gentleman. Stay the course.

Yes, keep doing it! I have so much respect for people like you! In my opinion, women will respect you alot more for it, especially if they know you had the opportunity to hook up with them when they were drunk and you showed enough respect not to take advantage of the situation.

Get drunk yourself then go for it. XD

this happens to you alot !?

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She might chew off her own arm in the morning?

Listening to your moral conscience is what separates you from the rest of the guys who would gladly hook up with a drunk girl. Think with your brain, not your dick. You will be rewarded in the end..

If you do go through with it, then think about this. If your future wife or girlfriend finds out about your past activities and doesn't find anything wrong with it, then what kind of girl is that? This is not the kind of girl you want to bring home to your parents and raise your children. If you want to fall for a morally conscience person, then be a morally conscience person. Don't be a that typical college boy looking for a wild 5 minutes shag, be a man. Water finds its own level, my friend. And those people who choose to hook up drunkenly are just looking at the rewards in a short term sense, not long term.

You are being a gentleman and you deserve a lot of credit. You will reap the rewards in health, if nothing else. You are doing the right thing. The only thing that I might suggest is that you might want to look for a partner in places that don't have so many drunk girls.

I think that is very noble of you and I think that while some girls at first might not understand it, a lot of them appreciate it. Keep doing it, you don't want to be some pathetic, loser creep who basically takes advantage of girls.....do you?

why are you even in the vicinity of drunk women? just say no. they will immediatly understand.

you should go for it and you also have to check if they're clean