ANSWERS: 9
  • live and let live, if their nice people who cares what the do with their sex life
  • It makes me wonder. I've known people in situations where one partner wanted to do it and the other just went along with it, figuring if they didn't then they'd just get cheated on, as if it's any different. The people I've known that have been into that eventually divorced - but nowadays most couples divorce so I guess you can take that with a grain of salt. Obviously, it's not my thing. I don't like sharing my fries, much less my wife.
  • Not for me but none of my business
  • I mind my own business. I know couples that swing, and while it isn't for us, they seem perfectly happy with it. The important thing is they are BOTH into it. Different strokes for different folks.
  • each to their own I say...
  • When the Wife and I had a Big house with lots of room for having friends over we would have food, games and Adult Toy Play time. Everyone knew that there would be some sharing if they wanted and watching was encouraged too, but we took advantage of the housing market and sold the Big house with its 5 bdrms and 4 baths with a locker room style shower room and got a 2 bdrm 2 bath that was a forecloser that we are fixing. One of our closest friends is still going to live with us and we will still go to parties where there are our close friends, If ALL parties are OK with the situation then it should be fine- Everyone has there own values and morals and we respect them fully!
  • If they want to swing, fine. That's their choice. As long as they don't expect me and my wife to join in, nor expect us to be accepting of behavior which goes against our personal values.
  • Why did they get married in the first place? They are acting as if they are single and available but they're not. What kind of values do such people have to give to their children, if they ever get together long enough to have children? I simply don't get it. To me it would be living a lie, even though both partners thought it was the cat's pajamas and way cool! :) Happy Wednesday! :)
  • Where were they when I was younger? All we did was get drunk and watch the rabbits mate. Mating with the others never occurred to us. Besides it wouldn't have been good for my security clearance.

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