Before I come home after a 3 month trip from my BF, should I email him saying that I want a fresh happy loving start among our little problems, or not email him and surprise him making him wait to hear from me longer?
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angela
ANSWERS: 6
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Communucation is always the best thing. Otherwise, it could be mitaken for game-playing, like maybe you were trying to catch him at something. Not that you are - but often that is the assumption. Best of luck to you both, dear :)
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I would say email him, he might like to know things are going to be good and get excited about seeing you :D I've a question for you, were ye on a break while you were gone for 3 months?
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ohh!god,you have no idea how diffucult for me it was at first,all my answerbag questions were of all our problems....We were having ALOT of problems before I left.its grad year weve been together for over 3+ years.We decided we should take this oppurtunity to open up our eyes to the world that we dont know eachother in.That there are millions of other people out there it was stupid when I heard that and sad,but then I said okay.I didnt hook up with anyone the whole time,its pretty easy not to,Anyways, he didnt hook up with anyone either,he almost did, but he didnt,and as many times as i cried and how hard it was in the end,the truth comes out.3 months is a PERFECT time, to build up a true faithfull promise its not too long not too short,so depending on your guys relationship and how long ect..DO IT!It will be the time of your life!And you guys will be just so much happier in the end!
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Ok my comment wouldnt work either!! argh!! We've been together 2 years, since first yr in university, just about to graduate this year to :D Also similarly the break wouldnt be so we could hook up with other people it would just be to take the pressure off of having to keep in constant contact and if for some reason one of us did hook up with someone else it would be ok. I think he wants this more then I do, the break that is but I think he wants it so he can go mad with his friend for a bit and not have to worry about me. I really really want to go, a lot of my friends are going so it would be amazing. I dont think I will get to go though, I want to do a masters course next year and they cost a lot of my money. You should tell ur bf your coming back and you want a fresh start to forget all the rubbish ye were fighting over, (because if your like me most of your fights are just silly little one that get out of hand!). That way he can get excited about getting to see you. :D
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if your relationship is such that you are even tempted to ask for a "fresh happy loving start", why are you even in the relationship?
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Just how close are you two in this relationship? 3 months is a long time to be separated. I only hope you do not receive an unwelcomed surprise from him. Do not call, do not email. Just knock on the door and see what happens. Advance warning could tip him off.
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