What would you do if you're partner asked you: "Wouldn't it be great to bring somone else into our relationship?"
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Crystal
ANSWERS: 54
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Only if you get out first.
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I would say it is fine as long as long as she's sexy.
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well tell him what about your MOM? lol
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Say sure because I won't be around.
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I would want to discuss it and see why they would want that.
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i would say 'um....no, are you high on something?'
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I would say "You know? I was just thinking about how attractive your brother is"
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NO this is 2009 not the 1st century anymore.
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Lets talk about what you have in mind.
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I'd say NO WAY!
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Say no, talk to her about it and depending upon what she said, consider filing divorce papera.
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over my dead body!
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Depends on the gender of the third person.
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I would ask her what her name was,then tell her ABSOLUTELY!! lol........
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He wouldn't say that, and if he did I'd assume he was talking about having another baby, even though we've agreed, no more! :-) +5
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i would say no because threesome is good in theory not in practice.
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good idea! i know the perfect GUY!!!!NOT!!!.....then one of us would have to go...i'd never be at ease knowing i wasn't satisfying to him....i could never look him in the face again, much less sleep with him ,because i'd never be able to get that question out of my mind...i'd know him for the whoremonger he is....:)
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we did!! our four children have made our house a home and made my husband and i, a family
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"If you're not talking about a baby, a marriage counselor, or just kidding, then one of us needs to pack up and move out".
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Re evaluate the relationship with my 'partner' yo...
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Yeah it would be great - she can do the cooking, cleaning, washing, chauffering of our kids etc while we get on with living - and No, she cannot live in hte house!
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'No. No it wouldn't'
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Threesomes ARE NOT my thing.
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Why is it open relationships seem to be good for everyone else and not for yourself? What is the fear? He or she may find someone better? Every answer I have read seems to indicate that. Incase there is even a little bit of couriosity in any of you out there here is a little information...yeah I expect the DR trolls to walk all over my answer...But can you read entirely the information I am giving and do so with an open and understanding mind? http://www.lovemore.com/ http://www.libchrist.com/bible/compatible.html
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I would say "No, it wouldn't".
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I don't think I'd accept that.
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Blah, the sickness that comes with to many freedoms and fast food relationships. I would bail.
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I'd start making a prioritized list of possibilities.
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I would say, "No, I didn't commit to you to share you. If you want to get some with some one else, the door is wide open."
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I would say , "ABSOLUTELY NOT" ... If they need another person; then it is GOOD-BYE from me ...
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OK, if it's someone I choose
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Depends on how cute she was and if I actually loved him or not.
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No. I never agreed to share him.
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Wish her the best of luck and send her on her merry way
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I would be hurt, and realize that I wasn't enough for him. There's a lot of other ways 2 people can spice up their relationship without having another person come in. I am 1 man, 1 woman only. So my reaction would not be positive.
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DIVORCE HIM
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Great idea. I've got her number right here. Seriously, there's nothing wrong with polygamy. Like homosexuality, most people aren't born that way, but polygamists shouldn't be discriminated against.
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ARGH!!! Watch out they aren't cheating on you already and trying to make themselves feel ok about it!!!!
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if i didnt kicked him out the door then im the one walking out.....if thats what he wants, its his choice but its not something im comfortable with.
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When do we start?
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If he is talking about a cleaning lady... sure.
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Honestly? I'd probably be upset.
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I would ask him for what purpose he wants to bring someone else into it (love? sex? boredom?) and whom; ask if this he really wants this or whether this is just because of something in our relationship, and if it's not the latter, I'd tell them I'll think about it taking into account what he said.
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Well only if it's a girl, then the more the marrier
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My wife suggested that, and we got ourselves a person to mow the lawns.
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I am so glad i have a bf who thinks that that is just wrong! my friends bf tries to do it all the time. and tried to get her to kiss one of his best mates so he could watch! ehh i dunno why. she was really upset. and even my bf was telling her how he thinks that if she doesnt like how he does that then he should stop doing it. Makes me smile to watch him help out my friends when they are down. I think i got the best one out there ladies =]
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She did and we will.
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I would probably say "you know honey, I think you better leave your mom out of this" Hopefully, that'll be the end of that conversation. If he wants another person in the relationship, he can go find them and be happy elsewhere!
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my wife brought this up to me a few years ago....but lucky me it was a woman she wanted to join....we went that route for about 6-8 months and it was fun....funny thing was though, I didnt give a damn when it was all done and over with....but my wife was pissed when she left. after a year or so they are friends again, but the attachment can proove troublesome in the begining....best to experiment if both parts of the relationship are into it, but try not to screw around with it for too long, and NEVER without out your s/o!
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I'll say to her, " Yes, that would be a great idea, as long as she's pretty, beautiful and as sexy as you are!!!"
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I would probly kick his fuckin ass and if i didn't he'd wish i did that just not my thing i like an A & B relationship NO C's allowed
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I'll be jumping ...for joy.
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Talk about it. Don't just send him off just like that, seriously talk about it. You can even ease into the idea... you might like it. My boyfriend and I have been going to strip clubs and getting pretty insane lap dances...you'd be surprised how amazing your sex life can be :)
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Permanently no. For one night, yes
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