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Take my advice when i say you should go to group therapy. When my mother first died i blamed myself all the time. But i went to this place called the Solace House (others who have lost a child or a parent or a sibling) get together and share their stories. I can guarantee you will meet someone who knows what you are going through and who can help you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine. I don't believe he would have suffered. I happen to think that when we lose our loved ones in tragic accidents, it must mean they are too good for this world... and are carried away without pain or struggle.
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He probably blacked out when he hit the water. I doubt he felt any pain. As a father I can only offer my condolences for you and your family. I can't imagine your pain. I'm so sorry.
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Please accept my warmest feeling toward you for your experience. May I also suggest you allow him the dignity of his own death, his own experience. It was his, do not take it on yourself. Would he have been happier knowing his mother was focusing on his death rather than his life? You had him for 24 years, which were as wonderful as you were able to make them. Remember them. It is written that parents should pass before their children and when life ends the other way, parents experience a very sharp pain. I hear your pain and can only suggest, as I have, that you celebrate his life, not his passing.
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As soon as his spirit left his body, no matter the pain, he immediately felt the most joyful indescribable feeling, when he went with the angel to Heaven...so his feeling of pain was soon forgotten.
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