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by Anonymous on February 23rd, 2007

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When i have sex it usually takes me less than 5 minutes to reach orgasm, and i can't help it. Then after i have an orgasm, i cant get my penis erect again for quite some time. what is my issues and what can i do to make things better?

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  • by ftwayne1 on March 20th, 2007

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    its very tipical especially if you get really excited durrin gsex or masterbating.
    try edgeing, I had the same problem when I first started cumming and a buddy told me to edge and it has worked. Edgeing is jacking or haveing sex until you feel like you are about to cum and then back off and dont cum, when you feel less excited start again and do the same. the more you do this the longer you will be able to hold off cumming. When I first started to cum I would shoot a load in about 5 minutes or less' now I'm 23 and can jack off or have intercourse for over an hour without cumming. It just takes practice. Sometimes if you put pressure jsut under the hood by pinching you head that will make the urge to cum go away. also a tap on your cock when you feel ready to shoot will help you edge.try it and let me know how it goes.

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  • by khumalos on June 25th, 2009

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    Its a process like it has been said in the first answer.learn to use different styles especially man at the back.When u want to ejaculate take it out and ejaculate out.Quickly take it back and let her continue to squeeze it throughout the process.U can also have too much time of love play and let her squeeze it and ejaculate before entry and continue to squeeze if it gets up take it in, it goes for some time l tell u. try it and tell me if it works.

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  • by Nightwing on August 5th, 2010

    Nightwing

    You sound young and relatively new to sex and getting off with a partner. Jerk off more, get your dick used to being hard, coming, and getting up again. Consider some delay cream, like lidocaine (the stuff in medicine for painful sun burns) smear some on your johnson and see if that slows you down.

    When you are fucking take a moment and enjoy the ride. Push it into her deep, stop thrusting, and take a few deep breaths and be in the moment. Women like to feel a cock inside them--she won't mind the pauses. Try deep slow grinding instead of being a jack hammer. Don't race to the end; take the scenic route. Change positions when you get close. Roll her over a few times. Women report they actually like it when a man moves them into different positions. When you get close, take it out of her and get her to move; time will give you a moment to come back from the brink.

    Take arginnine, an amino acid, and zinc supplements, they both boost erections. Try viagara. 25 mg makes me hard and stiff as a cop's nightstick and I can get it up again pretty quick if my wife is game.

    Also, do Kegel exercises. They aren't just for women. Clinch your butt muscles and hold it until you can go it for more than 30 or 40 seconds. The PC muscle will get stronger, it will get a bigger blood supply and that extra blood will give you a nice boner which will be there more quickly for round too.

    Lastly, ask you partner to suck your dick after you cum. That works for most of us.

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  • by conceptualclarity on April 20th, 2010

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    The Taoists had a technique for male multiple orgasming that is being taught these days. It enables you to have a series of non-ejaculatory orgasms that do not cause your penis to go soft before the finale with ejaculation which occurs when you want it to occur. It makes a big difference in pleasing women; they don't like the minute man phenomenon. Barbara Keesling wrote about it in How to Last All Night. You might be able to find free info googling on it.

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