I have a serious problem. I am happily married and always have crushes on other guys. I try to keep myself from doing this but I can't. Why is that?
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Yuuki Girl
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Because that's how you were born - gay, or at least bi.
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Maybe you're not sexually satisfied.
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Because your not feeling satisfied...thats it. You have to figure how in which area your not feeling satisfied. Emotionally/mentally/physically/spiritually.....etc then you need to address it. Ignoring it may lead your thoughts to take you further and put yourself in a situation that may make it hard to resist cheating. Don't go down this route, be brave and he honest and upfront with your partner. Than take it from there.
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theres nothing wrong with window shopping:)
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satan working on u...;0 u r married...u r lusting and it is evil...adultery is wrong...u have a "cheatin heart"...how would u feel if he confessed this to U? uh huh, thats about the way it always is...u r selfish and unfair...let that man go so he can have a decent wife and a FAIR chance..:)can't ? can't never could...we all got power over evil....YES U CAN..
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You need to get your butt into therapy QUICKLY! You're going to hurt someone badly who doesn't deserve it, and YOU are on that list as well. In the meantime, I strongly suggest you stay far away from situations where you have any free time at all talking to other men. And when you're not working - go HOME and stay there.
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If your marriage is very happy then why spoil it. At the end of the day sex does not make you happy and you are only doing it a small proportion of the time. Its the relationship and the romance which makes you happy. We all get various sexual fantasies when in relationships. It does not mean that you are gay because being gay is preferring male company as a partner. You probably prefer women but just have fantasies because they are exotic and different. Get yourself a sex toy like a vibrator or suction pump and a bottle of poppers and download some good porn - and clear you browsing history aftwards. Trust me its better than the real thing! Dont cheat though. Sorry about being crude. Just trying to be honest. We all get tempted by what is different and want greener pastures nomatter how happy we are. Don't get dragged around from pillar to post by this though. You are a boat and not a piece of wood in the waves.
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