I am a 20 yr attractive, intelligent female who does not have any friends and I dont understand why. I am honest, loyal, giving without expecting in return, loving, funny, open minded, out going, down to earth, dont think too highly of myself, talentedetc
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Prosperous1
ANSWERS: 7
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Too perfect?
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I am the same way, except I'm male and I'm 26. I understand how it feels to seem like you aren't wanted, or that you don't have many friends, or that no body respects you as a person because you aren't popular, or talented, or stand out from the crowd. My advice is: Don't worry about it! Part of the reason you feel this way is because you dwell on the fact that other people around you seem to be enjoying life, while you sit around thinking about life. Just go out there and have fun! I know it's easier said than done, and it involves having to step outside your comfort zone. Do it! You might discover new things about yourself, or fall into a new hobby, or become the social butterfly you feel like you always wanted to be.
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post a pic of your self and we'll be the judge of that
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Are you in school? Do you work? Are you involved in any clubs? Sports? Charities? Do you belong to a church? There are people everywhere. Probably the easiest way to make friends is to do something you really like and are passionate about where you'll find like minded people. And you don't have to be super outgoing. Just go out there and do what you love and be yourself. People will notice that and be drawn to you.
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Maybe people are intimidated by you. It's also possible that you spend all of your time indoors. If that's the case, how do you expect to ever meet anyone personally?
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All qualities i'm looking for in a good friend. We should hang out sometime. See...simple as that. I guess it just means that all the people that do not reasonate with these qualities (AKA as horrible people) have passed you by. This is something you should be very happy about. When you do form friendships, they will be strong ones...not the flighty ones that most people have.
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Encourage people you chat with to contact you again. Or even ask for their contact details. Then take it from there. Good luck
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