ok..... well i guess it would all depend on how i felt about the woman at the time we first sleep together! is it gona be a one night stand or will i be with her? i guess there are diffrent ways that i personnaly do this. I have slept with wemon that i cared less if the had any type of orgasim... as long as i got mine!!!! now... when i meet my wife (before we were married)the first time her and i made love i made it a point to take her to her peek of all 3 orgasims!!! then i worried about myself. but then again i had felings for her prior to this engagement. thus makeing me a bit intimidated in the sense to please her!! If a man intends to have more than one sexual relation with the woman he's with i would suggest he do everything possible to please her. but then again some men think that if she will sleep with you on the first date she;s not worth respecting enough to please her to the fullest extent. wich i think is wrong. But i still to this day after 5 months of marriage take my wife to the peek of all 3 orgasims a woman can have as many times she will let me then i know when she's had enough cause she focuses on me and takes me where i need to be. hopes this helps ya..

always always always pleasure her first and most, she will never talk bad about you and her friends will find out about you.