How can one be social and friendly, and try to avoid any relationships?
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Take it from me, you can't. I've been trying to do it for three years.
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Take it from me as well, you spend too much time with that person and sooner or later your feelings develop into something that I categorize as LOVE. L-O-V-E. That was my case, anyhow. Still is.
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You should just make sure that your 'social friendly' isnt taken the wrong way by the other person. you might intend on coming across friendly and they might be taking it as flirting. but if you ask them, then that might send out a wrong signal also. You can usually tell if you think they want more than just friend, then its time to back off a little at a time, so as to still be friends without serious 'talking'. did I say that right?
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You can. It's called "having boundaries" and sticking to them. Being up front about them when necessary too.
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