Friends with benifits, is it worth the risk?
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No it is not. You sell yourself short as a bit on the side or some cheap slut because no friend has respect for a person that cares so little for themselves. If you are good enought to have sex with you are surely good enough tobe seen with as a partner. There is no such thing as a friend with benefits. It is just a line to cover cheap and shabby behaviour.
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The only risk is that most likely you won't be friends when it's all said and done. I think it's worth the risk BIG TIME! :)
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Re-frame the whole idea. You are the one who decides what you want to do. If you're just looking to get laid, go for it. The real question is whether you feel you are honoring yourself in such a relationship. You may well be. This is not a place for judgment, but for evaluation. Will you benefit from the relationship? If you feel you will benefit, go for it. But honor yourself, respect yourself and accept the consequences of your conduct.
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I HOPE you are not the same person who JUST ask this question a minute ago ..... WHAT ABOUT PREGNACY ? Is the FRIEND going to be there if the girl gets Pregnant ? WHO will pay for the pre and post natal items ? Who will pay for the baby's birth and the mother's care in the hospital ? Who will pay for the child after the birth such as clothes, food, vitimans, baby furniture ect ... WH's going to be getting up at all hours of the night to change those dirty , smelly diapers and to fix bottles for the baby ? Just a FEW items to think about BEFORE hoping into bed with a FRIEND for a few minutes of LUST .... NOTE: 18% of ALL Condoms are defective or will break ect ... so the female SHOULD be on Birth Control before she does her bed hoping ...
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I don't think it's worth the risk. If you end up doing more than what is comfortable, even if you are unaware that it may make you uncomfortable, then you may end up losing your friend.
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depends on what the risks are. If both people are mature, unattached and understand it's just friends having some sex well there's nothing to worry about...though most times someone falls in love or things become complicated. I say test the waters before you dive in and make sure the ground rules are clear....and understand that potentially you could lose a friend.
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No. It ruins the friendship, and it is never the same again.
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if both of you are into it than no its fine in fact i got that going on for myself and were closest friends as ever but the thing is becareful im starting to feel for more than just sexually im starting to care bout her and stuff so be prepared for feelings to come out and stuff ok so if your prepared for that your all good :)
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"Friends with benefits" are really a "one-night-stand-on-call". They're not really friends at all. They are sexual aquaintances who agree to make themselves available for no-strings-attached hot monkey sex whenever one or the other feels like it. And that's the sole basis for the relationship. Once this relationship moves beyond this stage with either person, then it's no longer a "friends with benefits" relationship. And if you're truely friends with someone (as opposed to just an aquaintance), then you cannot have this kind of a relationship, because the feelings get in the way of the purpose of the "friends with benefits" set up. Which is to have a bang-buddy whenever you need it WITHOUT having an emotional tie to the other person.
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Why waste your time on on something that's not really worth it when you could possibly meet "the one" during one of those encounters if you spend the time you would waste with them somewhere else. I think it's just two people using each other and, sadly; usually one of them is really hoping they are more than just a friend with benefits to the other person.
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What risk?
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there shouldnt be any risk, the only thing is that ur relationship wont be the same.if we knew that it wasnt worth it we wouldnt do it.
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