If love is blind, do you believe marriage is an eye opener or the blind leading the blind, explain?
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If love is blind, then marriage is a festival in the blind man's island. You still never get your path lost. For others, it looks like the blind leading one another.
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Marriage-----------------> No stop signs, speed limit Nobodys gonna slow me down, Im on the highway to hell!
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I don't think love is blind in a sense of not seeing what's important or seeing major flaws. Love is blind in the sense that it overlooks the little things that don't matter but it sees to the truth of the matter, to the heart.
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...Well I dont believe love can be called blind, when your inlove you know your partners...weak points and everything about them. So you cant just over look them, but become VERY AWARE of them...and help them over come anything that is bringing them down. That is how a marriage works, its 2 people deciding to live there life with each other turning them into the best person that they can be, Spiritually, Physically, Mentally, and Emotionally. Saying...YOU ARE THEM, AND THEY ARE YOU....and you can never be the best you can be, without them being the best that they can be. So yeah...its an eye opener...in a good way. Alot of times though, yeah its the blind leading the blind...over looking there faults...letting them fail, allowing things into your marriage that shouldnt be there, looking the other way when you suspect things...that today is why many marriages fail....your partner is your love, your friend, your companion, and they are YOU. So you need to see and know everything about them, EVERYTHING.
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During the honeymoon period it is the blind merrily leading the blind. You can't see each other's faults because hey, it's mating season. The song on the radio was written just for the two of you. Ain't no mountain high even or river deep enough to keep us apart, baby! After the honeymoon period, reality sets in, your eyes open and you start seeing the cracks in the walls. Then you have to decide whether it's worth it to continue or not.
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An eye opener.
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I believe that when people say love is blind, it means we overlook all the faults. ALL including the major ones. for example, like that bad gambling habit you're mate always has and the bad debts he/she always get into which is always conveniently accompanied by the empty promises of : one last time OR the promise of changing . shotgun marriages or marriages that people jump into thinking that this is the love of their life , IS exactly like the blind leading the blind. but the marriages whereby you probably marry you're best friend for perhaps ten over years and not " the person who happens to complete you at that moment in time " are definitely marriages where people can grow old together , happily falling in love with each other over and over again till they're ninety and die , still very much inlove with each other
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