Hi, Jessica, I'm so sorry for your loss !!! I think that grief is different for everyone. What affects someone for months can also affect someone else for a much shorter amount of time. There's no magic moment in time where you can be assured that you will feel better. If you need some help in dealing, maybe now would be a good time to spend some time with a therapist and talk about your issues. What you need is closure, and hope. I'll be praying for you, Sue

im so sorry for the pain you are going thru. my husband and i were only together a few months before i found out i was pregnant, and it was a shocker..our lifestyle did not permit..however i thought it was a miracle baby, because for so long i was told i was going to have a very difficult time getting and staying pregnant..i was old enough to take care of myself and was resourceful enough to care for this child of mine whether he and i stayed together, or not.. it came time to do the ultrasound to see the sex. i was just 14 weeks (give or take) and they couldnt find the heartbeat..they sent me home and told me to let nature take its course..it did and i had the proceedure done.. it emotionally devistated me, i layed in bed for two weeks, didnt talk, eat , nothing, my boyfriend, (who is now my husband) dragged me out into the world to the animal shelter we volunteered at, and there in a kennel, was a lone puppy 5oz, there was no other puppy brothers and sisters or a mommy, just an abandoned tiny baby puppy and it was at that moment in my life i understood what symbiotic meant. i still have her and we recently celebrated her 8th birthday..i havent shared that story outside of my close and personal since. the mopral of the story is, you wont get over it.. but you will find things to aid in your happiness, and what love you do have in your life..