kid defend ur self do be scard once u start standing up for ur self they will back off and make some friends dont be the creepy kid in the back that dosnt talk ur only in school oncein ur life have funn think big not small

well, if i were you, when someone said somethign to me or came up to me and started bullying me i would just be like, "why are you being such an ass trying to be cool by making fun of my weight? if you were over weight would you like it if i came saying shit about you." I would just tell it like it is.

Learn how to defend yourself. Boxing, Karate, Aikido or Ju-jitsu will be helpful. This will make you lose some pounds and gain self confidence. I must warn you, it won't be easy. You will have to work hard. Believe me, I'm speaking from experience.

Don't put up with it. Defend yourself and learn how to fight back. Join a karate class or something. You don't deserve to be treated like that.

well I don't know how old you are and I never had problems with bullies but what you could do is this summer work out a lot get ripped get a new hair cut if needed and next school year take one of there girlfriends or try to date the hottest girl in school

What grade are you guys in? If I were you, I'd tell the teacher what I could. If it was bad enough, I'd ask my parents to have a meeting with me, the teacher, the kids and their parents. I was teased in school too. By doing this these kids are not only damageing your nerves, but they're also damageing your future social skills. It may affect your learning, your self esteem, your ability to have relationships, get a job, etc. They're setting you up for misery! I would make a big deal about this. I would even consider moving schools if the problem isn't fixed. Good luck!

tell parents !!!! PRINCIPAL/TEACHER/ AND NAME FEW AND TEACHER WILL HAVE MEETING AND HOPEFULLY STOP BULLYING good luck best luck i use to be called fat or ugly agnore people like that there sad emmature bullys who like to hurt people .

Dont let them walk all over you! Stick up for yourself. Everyone goes through a stage of not fitting in sometime. These guys just want to make you feel bad so they can feel better about themselves. That makes me so mad for you! I had the same thing, I would just be an ass hole right back. Maybe thats not the right way to handle things, but kids are jerks!

Tell someone. A parent, a schoolmate, a teacher, a counselor. But tell someone. You have to start somewhere even though it may seem impossible.

There is no excuse in the world that makes bullying acceptable. ONLY you can determine your self worth. You have the right to feel safe and secure in school and when you tell a trusted teacher what is going on it is within you right to do so. If teachers do not do anything about it tell your parents. Stand up for yourself in a healthy and positive manner. And always remember that you are beautiful.

i would say, "I think it's really sad that you have to degrade people in order to boost your self esteem up...really sad... i think I'll pray for you later." and if they say something rude back i'd punch the living day lights out of them. you'll get suspended for knocking them unconscious.. but at least they won't bother teasing with you anymore. drawback is that they could always gang up after you.. but then it would really show what kind of character they have and they'll risk expulsion from the school. or... you can always tell your parents who would talk to the principle about this situation. My mother told me that if I had told her back then how terrible it was for me that she would have transferred me to another school. but i don't think transferring would've helped. I met my best friend during the worst years of my life and 12 years later we're still great friends and he's helped me out during the most dangerous times in my life where i thought being alive was pointless.

I'm so sorry you are experiencing that; no one should have to deal with that. Make sure the teachers and principal are aware of it and keep telling them until something is done about it.Make your Mom or Dad or both complain to the school and if it still happens have Mom and Dad go to the Board of Education about it. Schools don't like it when you go "over their heads" but if they aren't taking care of the problem someone must. That school is responsible for your safety and well-being during the hours you are there and it sounds to me like they aren't doing their jobs. As for the ignoramuses that are bullying you...look directly at them and tell them that no one is perfect; especially not them. And that you may be "fat" but you can always lose the weight. Take a good look at those who are bullying you, I guarantee they have something not so perfect because no one is perfect! You can always stoop to their level (not the best option!) and see what doesn't look so good on them and point out their imperfections; like they might have eyes too close together or too far apart or a big nose or a big or small head or big ears or they're too skinny or they have ugly hair...etc. Believe me, no one is perfect and people who bully are people who are insecure about themselves. It makes them feel better about themselves for some strange reaons. I think it's a very sad situation that this goes on at all and it angers me so much. I hope it stops. I hope you'll let your friends at AB know how things are going with it. Good luck to you. And whatever you do, do not let them determine your self worth or affect your self esteem. Weight does not determine your worth. Look at yourself and realize all the good things about yourself; they don't have to be physical; are you a kind, loving person? Do you do your best to be the best person you can be, etc. I'm sure you have a lot of wonderful things about you.

Well, I'd tell a school principal for sure. Bullying is a huge problem in America. I sympaphize you dealing with it.

Ignore people who tell you to be violent because that's not the answer.You need to remember you are beautiful in your own way and people who make fun of you are upset about the way they look.When people made fun of my sister 'cause she was a little big,we told our parents and they talked to the principle.So if you havent told your parents yet,you need to.It may not seem like it,but they will.Also,if this keeps happening,don't listen to the jerks who say crap like that about you.I bet you have something about you that there jealous of.

I know I already answered it. But I would like to add: Complain ... complain.. complain... to the school Principal or higher. Make sure you tell as many people as possible. Spread a word around.

You need to talk to a teacher, guidance counselor, or faculty member you trust. Even if it is someone who used to be your teacher - if you feel comfortable talking to them, that is what they are there for. It doesn't matter what subject they teach. Their job as a teacher is to make students feel safe, and you clearly are not. They might direct you to talk to someone that has better insight than them personally, but at least you're making the first move in getting help. If you are afraid that the principal, etc. will talk to the bully/bullies, and the bullies will get mad for being ratted out, they don't have to know YOU made the complaint. Someone could have witnessed you being bullied and reported it. And chances are, you're not the only one being bullied by them. So opening your mouth could help a lot of other victims of bullying. Maybe this is an unhelpful suggestion, but if you bought a mini tape/voice recorder and caught them on tape bullying you (is this verbal bullying, or physical, or both?) to prove what's happening, and replay it for the principal, parents, etc., then they'll know you're not exaggerating, and the bully will be left with nothing but shame and total embarrassment that they got caught. Once they're caught on tape, there's nothing they can do. Also, teachers know a lot about clicks of friends more than students think they do. Even if you only mentioned 1 or 2 people, chances are teachers know the group(s) they hang out with.

Nothing girl, you are reminding me so much of me at your age. I was fat and bullied too. I didn't have friends. I did better in school than others and they were jealous. I didn't know how to handle it either. Here is the thing. Schools are not designed to produce very functional human beings. Schools are designed to produce identical human beings. It has never been a very good goal and it produces a queer breed of cruelty in which anyone who doesn't fit that identical mold stands out for punishment. It doesn't matter what the reason is. You may stand out for being bigger, smaller, smarter, dumber, musical or unable to carry a tune. If you don't fit on the middle of the bell curve in every little area, you are going to stand out and you are going to get bullied. Human beings are not made to be identical. God clearly values diversity, or He wouldn't have made so much of it. Uniformity is a human desire and I have come to believe it is not a very holy human desire. Look what it has led us to: racism, classism, sexism, Hitler's death camps and apartheid. We need to revel in our differences, not try to rid ourselves of them. Here is what I have learned over decades of dealing with this. If you hate you, everyone else will too. If you love you, others will too. Learn to look at who you are as God given, even the bad parts. Those are the parts that give you empathy and compassion and courage and strength and endurance. We don't love our friends for what makes them just like everyone else. If that were the case then friends would be easily interchangeable with no reason to love any one person over the other. We love our friends for what makes them different. Your friends love YOU for what makes YOU different. Learn to embrace that. That includes the weight. When I was teaching middle school (12 to 14 year olds), I used to stand in front of my class at the beginning of the year and in my address to the class, I would say; "Let's get this straight right up front: I'm fat. I'm not husky, chubby, horizontally challenged, calorically challenged or any other politically correct moniker. I'm fat." I would have shocked looks all over the room, but I never heard any kid whispering or giggling about my appearance in the four years that I taught. When you aren't ashamed of you, you take the weapons right out of their hands. And by the way, I've found over several decades of searching that my obesity was due to five different autoimmune diseases interacting with one another. My bullies weren't bullying me for being fat. My bullies were bullying me for being sick. If any of them knew that now, they'd probably be deeply ashamed, if they had the character to blush. No matter what current medical thinking or popular thinking might be, I believe that a healthy body wants to be in motion and a healthy body wants good food. A body that doesn't want to move has something wrong with it. In my case, it was fibromyalgia. I just didn't know that everyone else didn't suffer the same pain when I was a kid. Here is what you need to remember about those bullies. Many of them are headed to really bad lives. The worst of them will probably be in prison before you are out of school. Many of the rest will never hold down a good job and will be serially divorced. I've never figured out why people don't ask if their beloved was a bully in school, because if they were a bully in school, they'll be a bully in love too. By the time you are out of school, you will probably never see most of them again. You will be free, and they will be trapped with themselves for the rest of your life. This seems like never-ending, but it is very temporary. You only have to outlast them. If you learn to love yourself, then like Harry Potter, you will have a weapon they won't understand and eventually you will defeat them.

furstly... no-1 CAN bully mua... ah-huhn!!!... NEVR... but if they try... wudnt evr go tu teachr or parentz... wud take kare uf thm maslf... EVN if they r more than wht i can handl... duznt mattr... wud surely giv thm back the shyte they wud give me... :D... peace!!!