As a guy, I'd say rejection is far more our issue than yours. Also as a guy, I don't mind putting up with SOME histrionics, but there IS a limit.

Because you're putting yourself in the position to get hurt without them realizing it.

Perhaps you are being a little too foreward or agresssive ... Try to back down and slow up a little ... You know what they say ; Good Things come to those who WAIT !

Maybe you are expecting it to happen and you are giving off the signals that you are not willing to open up in case you get hurt. Or you could be letting them feel that you are really not very interested and they are jumping before you give them the push.

I dunno. if that's you in the avatar pic you look cute. you do shower do you? Maybe you're lookig for the wrong guy. I mean, extreme example, if you dress like a senator but are looking for a biker..... well that's not really gonna work. or maybe I dunno, I don't know you. you better ask your best friend.

Not sure, are you putting out? Sometimes if you put out too soon, a guy will do you but then they'll just leave afterwards because you offer no challenge. And if you're not putting out, well then there's the problem of you not putting out.

how do you approach them? most "nice" guys are pretty shy, perhaps they are not "rejecting" you but simply hesitating because they dont quiet know how to react to your approach. but this is a feable guess, without knowing you at least as well as the men you are interested in, then there is very little anyone here can do for you with much accuracy. however, i have all the time in the world and if you really want to talk this out then we can go through the comments, online chat, email, ect...i actually have the inverse to your question (why do girls keep jejecting me) and we could do each other great favors here.

Because you're giving them permission to hurt your feelings like that. You don't have to. The only reason it's upsetting you, is because you're letting it upset you. The reality of the situation is this, there are millions of other guys out there and if one rejects you, their loss, not yours. I'm guessing you don't know these guys too well. They should have no say over your emotional status. They reject you? Fuck em, you'll meet a new guy.

there is no way anyone here can give you a truly accurate answer without knowing at least as much as the men you are interested in. it is a pretty complectaed problem that may go from anywhere between your approach, through your goals, your attitude, ect... this answer would require you to talk this out with someone for a while and suppend all offense. no insults just honest feedback. i have the inverse of the question: "why girls rehect me" perhaps we could help each other via comments, chat, or email...your choice if interested.

Can't really say. Maybe you're just not ready to take a risk. My best advice is to be in the present moment. Don't expect things and don't dwell on the past. Just believe 'whatever happens is meant to happen' your life will be so much more enjoyable if you do.

there is no way anyone here can give you a truly accurate answer without knowing at least as much as the men you are interested in. it is a pretty complectaed problem that may go from anywhere between your approach, through your goals, your attitude, ect... this answer would require you to talk this out with someone for a while and suppend all offense. no insults just honest feedback. i have the inverse of the question: "why girls rehect me" perhaps we could help each other via comments, chat, or email...your choice if interested.

Because men are still evolving..or they stopped at some point:) Or maybe they are all just jerks, but they are just so HOT..I can't keep my hands off of them:):)LOL:P

That's very surprising. You seem like a doll to ME. I don't think anyone on here can really tell you why. Only someone you know offline can. That is of course if there actually is a why. This might just be in your head. But, you know, also, sometimes people behave in a way that makes what they fear happen.

maybe you act desperate that puts guys off

Awww hon... Don't worry about it. A life well lived, is not all about what men think of you. You're awesome! The right one will come when you are ready for him to. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you have insticts that you should trust over desire???

Freedom, darlin, no one here can give you anything meaningful. I'd have to be your friend and hang out with you on a regular basis for months before I could suggest anything. But from our extended conversations last year, I think you're a warm, sweet, caring woman; and your avatar says you're attractive to look at. So my guess is that you just haven't met the right one. And I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "rejected."

Attracting a guy (or for a guy, attracting a woman) is so tough to demonstrate in writing. All the subtleties become so important. What you wear sends messages, how you walk sends messages, what your voice sounds like sends messages, everything. I'm going to assume we're talking about the kind of rejection that happens when you first see or talk to a guy you might like, and he doesn't seem to like you back. It's natural for you to feel rejected, you wanted to have that guy be attracted to you. When he walks away instead, you decide that there was something about you that was "not good enough", right? Well, remember that there are a gazillion different things that might be going through that guy's head. Relationship status: He might already have a girlfriend, be married, recently lost a relationship. Preferences: He might like a particular body type, hair color, loud personality, or quiet and obedient, etc, and reject all others in his superficial quest for that type. Mood: Too drunk, pissed off that day, depressed, etc. Confidence: You're attractive, and guys don't want to be rejected any more than you do. They might walk right past you feeling like they just don't have the guts to talk to you. Maybe it's the "I don't want to be rejected" standoff! Do you approach them? Start a conversation? So, do you see how many things could be involved, and that so many of those things have nothing to do with whether you're a good person or a good match for them? I hope this helps. I've been rejected a few too many times myself.