Is it wrong to date multiple guys.Specifically two guys, two first dates on consecutive days?
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ANSWERS: 15
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no...as long as one of them isnt exclusive. You are simply sampling the fruits of life.
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Not at all as long as you are not in a committed relationship with one. Then you should be open about it. Have Fun
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No, as long as there isn't a commitment.
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No, there's nothing wrong with it at all. Once you establish what the other person believes to be a committed or physical relationship though you ought to be honest about seeing multiple people if you are.
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Not at all! Have fun!
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No...they are 1st dates, there's no commitment, it's just a date. Of course, if it goes on for a while, you should discuss whether there are any expectations of either person about dating other people.
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No
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No. But I know someone who dated multiple guys on the same day. Now that did cause problems.
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Hey have fun with each and it all goes well all three get together and have lots of fun!
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i don't think there is anything 'wrong' with it, especially when it's a first date. Dating is for looking around, having a good time, getting to know people. i don't think there is anything wrong with dating 10, for either men or women, as long as no one has been told they are the 'one and only', that it's made clear up front that one or both are not interested in being exclusive and that if sex is involved all are responsible and informed of that. A date is not a commitment to anything, as far as i'm concerned and no more 'wrong' than having dinner with a friend one night and seeing a movie with another the next. What could possibly be 'wrong' with it? If any man were to tell me he expected me not to see anyone else when we had not had more than a few weeks of dates (let alone just a couple), well, he could find someone else. Marriage is for monogamy. Dating is for whatever is agreeable between parties involved.
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I think "dating" is different, than bf/gf so it's ok
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YES ! Unless you won't be seeing the first date anymore. Otherwise, dating 2 people is not proper, don't you agree? Give one guy a chance and if that doesn't work, only then move on. Even if it is not serious there is a certain commitment, or at least respect due to the other person since you are dating them (a possible future relationship) and not just having a mere friendship . Then again, I am very loyal, respectful and faithful.
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No, of course not. No more "wrong" than going to a different restaurant on two consecutive nights. It is just a "date". You are not committed to either of them. Heck, I did it as a "young'en". I am a dude and we are the ones who usually do the asking. Why should it be different for the gals? I even ran into one of the gals I had taken to a concert the next night. She was with another guy and I was with another gal....we just smiled and said "hi" to each other. Hardly any heartbreaks...(smile).
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Since it's a first date, I presume you're not committed to either person. If so, then there's nothing wrong with going on multiple days. Have a good time!
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Kinda going against the grain here but if i went out on a 1st date with someone and it all went well and then the next night i spotted them out on a date with someone else i'd be a bit pissed!
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