If you hated love, like me, what would your reasons be for hating it?
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soar.on.broken.dreams.crystal
ANSWERS: 14
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That it makes people forget about everyone else in their life except for that one person.
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loosing the one i felt was my soulmate.
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You need a kitten.
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Yeah, basically that people do stupid things for it like kill or hurt and that it is often the excuse for dire behavior. I think you hate being vulnerable as we all are in love. As you get older you will develop a thicker skin and will feel less overwhelmed by the depth of your feelings. It's good to feel things deeply but it's best to keep some perspective as a kind of mental health safety measure. Don't let your feelings destroy you. Let them wash over you. If love is a battering ocean then you be a rock. or at the very least, a determined barnacle.
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If you still haven't found the love you are looking for or bad experience.
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Bitternesss, and an inability to forgive (including myself) and heal from the past.
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I hate it bacause people hide behind it and use it for excuses to do mean things. I hate because others are dissapointed when I don't live up to their expecations - or Ive exceeded their expectations they really loved that other me that doesn't exist. I hate it because love usually precedes hate. I hate it because it gets in my head and I see the good things in other people instead of the whole story - so I can't even dislike them - despite the fact I probalby should. I hate it most of all for ruining songs and poetry as well as literature and popular culture.
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Its a cryin shame. Its a mind game. Sometimes love doesn't feel like it 'should' because everyone thinks love is just a steady, continuous cycle of being happy with each other. I mean, hey, maybe it is. but i know thats not how it is with me and my guy in our relationship of 2 years. We're good. Trust me, we're just fine. But i see love as a rollercoaster.. ups.. and downs.. and definatly just the chillin-in-betweens.
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It being unrequited.
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If one hates love, it is because the act of opening ones heart to love would reveal subconscious emotional issues that we are not prepared to deal with.
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It can too often morph into hate. It's like the Devil.
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I am unclear how someone could hate love.One could be disappointed with what they had expected what love was and their own conditions of what love is to them.I have been hurt in relationships like all people ,though I feel I have learned from my experiences,but I never felt I hated love.
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If I hated love it would be because I was afraid of hurting like I have. I don't hate love at all, I know how wonderful it can be, however I am not sure if I could ever give 100% of my heart again.
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That the loss of love can be painful and unbearable at times. But I'd never trade that feeling of loss to not have ever had that experience of love.
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