ANSWERS: 28
  • I would tell him or her no. Now if they asked me when they are 17 i would probably react differently
  • I wouldn't be happy that they were sexually active BUT, I would be happy they were smart enough to want to use condoms.
  • I would take them out of school and home school them through a slot in their bedroom door because tahts all that they would be seeing of the outside world till they were 20.... Or i will just sit down a have a really serious talk about the birds and the bees.
  • I think it would be time we had a nice long, long, chat!
  • Well my boyfriend did that when he was 14, his stepdad bought him a whole box for christmas >.> Im not sure what i would do though >,<
  • I would blow up one of those condoms fill it with gel then smack the shit out of them with it !
  • I would have 'the talk' if I hadn't already and buy them for him. He obviously is thinking about having sex so it's better to be safe than sorry.
  • If it was a random kid, i'd say hell no. If it was someone I knew, i would sit them down and talk about what they are doing and the dangers of it and all that. And if i was convinced they were still going to do it regardless, I would buy them the condoms because as much as I might think they are making a bad choice, I really dont want them to end up getting a girl pregnant or with an STD. Thats if it was a boy.If it was a female 14 year old, then I wouldnt buy them at all. I'm not buying anyone's 14 year old daughter condoms.
  • If its someone i know i would at least they want to use protection! what if I said no and then they have an "accident"
  • I would hand them some $$ and tell them that they are more than welcome to do it themselves.
  • Make sure he has plenty. Help lower the birthrate right now, as he is going to do it and just make sure he has protection and plenty of it.
  • My first reaction would be that of shock and horror after that I would need to find out from him/her what was going on because my instinct would be to protect him/her. I would definately be having a chat with him/her and I definately would not be buying him/her condoms.
  • Well, it depends. My gut reaction is to hand them the money and tell them that if they are old enough to be having sex, they are old enough to buy the condoms themselves. On the other hand, I wouldn't want them to not buy the condoms because they are embarrassed and have sex anyway (unprotected). I'd probably sit them down and talk to them about why they want them and why they are embarrassed to buy them.
  • I would buy it, if i don't he/she will do it behind my back so its better to be the mission control.
  • I would talk to them to understand why they wanted them. Let them know my feelings on the sex issue. If they still wanted them, I would take them to buy the condoms as I want to be the voice of reason in my daughter's life....including sex life at age 14! OMG! Just let them know you are there and they can talk to you, if they are gonna do it atleast you can make sure its safe. Breathe and good luck with this one.
  • There is no age limit on buying condoms. If a 5 year old went to the store and wanted some they could not refuse (at least where I live) so I would say buy your own. If you're not mature enough to go in and buy them without being all embarrassed and giggly you certainly aren't mature enough to be using them for anything other than a water balloon fight maybe.
  • I would definately have a LONG talk with him; which would include the following ... 1)Since approximately 18% of all condoms FAIL / are DEFECTIVE ... what is HIS plan if the girl gets pregnant ? 2) Who would PAY for her pre-natal care ? 3) Who would pay for the mohers hospital stay and the BIRTH of their child ? 4) Who's going to PAY for the Post natal care ? 5) Where are THEY going to live ; because it is NOT going to be MY home . 6) Is he prepared to get up at all hours of the night to change dirty , smelly diapers ? 7) Is he ready to get up during the night to help fix formula and bottles .. feed the baby and burp it ... ? 8) Who is buying all of the baby stuff like crib, bassinet, stroller, car seat , vitimens , formulas, baby food , etc etc ... 9) Is he prepared to quit school and take care of his family and NOT be a burden on the Taxpayers , of which I am one .... ? After our two hour Sex Talk .... I'd get a couple of videos of a woman giving birth ... and we'd watch those with the girl and her parents .... THEN; if they were STILL ready to have sex ... knowing the conserquences etc .... I'd give him the $$$ and say ... "You want to be a grown up ? here ; YOU buy the condoms ; BUT remember what I've told you ... I hope you are ready for such a responsability ... Oh son, I LOVE you ! "
  • Is this wishfull thinking or you got a plan? Do I know this girl/guy? Do you care for this person/are you in "love"? and then....... You are too young to be having sex. Do you think this persons parents would approve? Sex is not a way to get to know someone, it is the worst way to get to know someone, because what may happen afterwords could be good.....could be tragic. I would have an incredibly long conversation about the variables that may happen afterwords and in the end tell them that if i can not stop them from having intercourse I will buy them......but they would need to think it over and tell me why they must have intercourse. And if I still cant stop it... how would you feel about discussing this with the other participants parents when I go over there to discuss it with them.
  • Impossible that he/she will ask me and i will educate him/her very well, that keep away from friends, who teaches you these things.
  • i wouldnt buy it, id reach into my wallet and give him the one i got for free and tell him to use it wisely.
  • Never ever think of giving that to him!
  • If your child is asking for them for their own use BE PROUD!!!! Your child trying to be responsible and have safe sex. Something you should also give is a good, open, truthful, frank discussion with your child about sex, sexuality, and responsibilities of being sexually active, including talking about making sure all the people involved are satisfied when you're done, only having consensual acts of sex, safe sex practices (like only using a condom once, when the right time is to put it on, and switching to a new one when it gets filled, etc). There's nothing wrong with fully consensual safe sex.
  • I'd have her hop in the truck and go for a very long drive. We'd talk about a whole lot of things - relationships, sex, people, pregnancy, life plans, diseases, etc. I'd buy some and place them somewhere they were accessible to her but I wouldn't hand them to her to keep in her room like that.
  • well then i would have to say buy them and give them the STRAIGHT TALK ABOUT SEX, obviously he is going to whether you help him or not and better safe than sorry+3.
  • I would ask why they couldn't use the machines that are in pretty much any restroom... And tell them they are too young to have sex!
  • i would be shocked but then sit them down talk to them bout the dangers of sex at a young age and then by them the condoms.I thinks its better to buy them for them becuz they mite go behind ur back and have unprotected sex and get some pregnant +49
  • Oh, hell, this is an easy one: "Ask your Mother!" :-) +5 to the questioner
  • I'd be pissed off! Nothing pissis me off more than a child being sexually active. It's retarded yet so many do it. WTF? I don't uderstand people who feel the urge to have sex that young. They can't possibly know what it means. My best friend and I talk about this often. Both of us were definatly not interested in the opposite sex IN THAT WAY until we were 17/18. We had no desire til then. I dunno but I think that something needs to be done to help turn children off from sex until 17/18. Like some sort of class that starts at a really young age to drill it in their minds.

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