What would you do if you were being repeatedly hurt by someone special who doesnt mean to hurt you. Forgive and forget or get revenge?
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ANSWERS: 5
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Revenge is a waste of time. Change your focus and go out and live the best life you can with people who enrich your mind and spirit.
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I would give them boundaries and stick to them.. I would protect myself from there destructive behavior...
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We Can clearly tell him about this, because otherwise this may continue still.
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I wouldn't seek revenge, but I would assess the situation and decide whether or not to still have this person in my life, when you say doesn't mean to hurt u, is it out of their control or deep down could they stop hurting you if they choose to. If it is the latter then I would remove them from my life, otherwise i'd stick with them but keep them at arms length to protect yourself!
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The person that hurt repeatedle, knows that is doing it, means to hurt. The excuses, justifications, and the pass of the blame to you and others, comes natural to that person. Revenge gives nothing but more hurting. Forgiving too many times, will end up hurting too.
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