I've heard the best way to lose a friend is to lend them money. Have you found this to be true?
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Well I know the best way to lose a best friend: move in with them.
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I agree with this. If you can't afford to just GIVE the person the money, then don't do it.
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Definately .... I've loaned several FRIENDS $$$$$ and after waitng and waiting past the time it was due to be paid back .... then asking for it ; They were PISSED and acted like I had punched them or something .... SO ; long too late I learned NOT to Loan .. So; I do NOT loan anymore $$$$$ it just cost too much in other ways ...
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many of them have a way of getting themselves lost after such a transaction. I figure that It is a good idea to find out who your real friends are and a small price to pay to get rid of the ones who no longer want to be.
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Very true as some friends find It easy to borrow money and when It's time to pay-up they find It difficult to return what they borrowed and that's when the problems begin.
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Basically I've just learned that if a friend approaches you for money, only give it if you can afford to and are in the mindset to think of it as a gift. That way, if you get it back, it's a happy surprise and if you don't it's only what you expected.
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