What would you change about your partner if you could (yes, I know their perfect in your eyes) But really, if you could, what would you change?
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AGM627
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I'd like my partner to be stinking rich and very generous ;)
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His longing to live in the past. It has almost ruined us.
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I would change the fact he is no longer with me
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I'd like mine to be less of a procrastinator. Otherwise he's perfect!
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I want her to have ancestors.
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I would make him less inclined to "lecture"...he has always been really bad about this especially with the kids. He does not seem to realize that after a half an hour or so, he is being "tuned out".
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To be less critical
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My boyfriend is a cop - I wouldn't change him or his job, because he loves what he does, I just want the city he patrols in to be safer!
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I would erase the selfish streaks that occasionally rear their ugly heads. ( All his Mom's fault, she spoiled him rotten!) lol
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I would make him more willing to see another person's point of view. He is very close minded and I am afraid that it is this view on life that has shut many metaphorical doors for him as well as for our family. It also makes reasoning or debating with him very difficult.
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Me....LOL
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He would be more willing to show affection.
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For her to understand that after sixteen years, I am the final version of who I am and am not willing or able to change for her any further.
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At the risk of sounding cliched I wouldn't change anything about my partner. She may not be perfect, but she's perfect for me.
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A willingness to get in great shape with me. I too, want my man around through our golden years.
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sex drive
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That she would love me, need me like she used too.
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When we first got married, I wanted to change many things. Mostly that he would need me like I needed him. Now, after almost 18 yrs, I wouldn't change one thing. He's a wonderful man.
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I wish he would make decisions faster. It took us 1 year to decide on new tile for the bathrooms... and we went loking at the same 5 colors for 8 of those 12 months! AUGH! In the end, he agreed that the 1st tile I decided on 11 months ago would be the best.
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i wish she had bigger tits and bigger ass
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I wish he had a better immune system. He gets sick so much. It's always something and I end up going to a lot of things without him which stinks because he is so wonderful to be with.
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stop biting his nails be more responsible with money and bills dry his hands thoroughly after washing them stop pampering me (I am getting lazy)
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To be perfectly honest, no. I mean, she's not perfect by any means. But I love her for the person she is, and no person would be the same without all their traits and habits together as a whole. If I tried to change her, she just wouldn't be her anymore.
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I would love it if he would go to the doctor when he is sick. I worry about him.
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i think she should change her attitude
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My partner suffers a lot with depression due to his bipolar disorder. He takes his medication faithfully and sees his psychiatrist regularly. In spite of this disease he has push on to meet life’s responsibilities. I am very proud of how strong he is, even it he doesn’t believe he is. If I was to change anything, I would take that away from him. As for anything else, I committed myself to him just the way he is, not expecting to change anything. I will continue to love him unconditionally and support him in any growth and changes that come with just living. If any thing comes up that I feel is difficult for me, we will talk about like we always do. I am certain we will always be able to work things out.
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yes his height: he is taller than me but still kinda short for his age. he is also too conceited. hey oh well,
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Her address.
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The fact that she doesnt exist. Is that valid?
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My Brian is a compulsive question-asker. He constantly asked questions. Nothing bad, just to me, it's a lot. I love him more than anything, but sometimes I feel like I am being interrogated.
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His inability to tell time.
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She's stubborn. "A Taurus", but, I love her more than anything, but, she's stubborn.
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He would be here with me. Why because he was taken many many years before his time and I miss him every second of every day
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For them to actually exist.
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His beer belly....but saying that he is on a diet and lost 9lbs up to now bless him.
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I would want him to talk more, stony silence is not good!
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she has a small scar on here neck, I wish it wasn't there. It would make here beautiful neck even more so.
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He has one of these living under his big toe on his right foot. Our bed isn't near big enough for the three of us. I make him hang it off the edge. Digger
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I'd give my wife more patience, she always gets worked up when things don't move fast enough for her, and I'd like to see her not have to get upset so much.
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I'd give him a set of healthy, beautiful kidneys. He was born with a genetic kidney disease, and needs a transplant.
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my fiancee' is very stubborn,so I would have to say I would make her more receptive to other ideas and suggestions. Oh and as a backup I would have her be more prompt about being on time to appointments and committments.
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I would want him to be more open with me and not so moody!
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his identity!
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My initial response was "nothing," but after considering this for a moment, I realized that if I could get her to not like Madonna's music anymore, that would be good.
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Do not have a s/o, but I would not want to change anyone to what i want but enjoy who they are without change.
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Nothing, I fell in love with him as he is and accept him as he is , flaws and all.
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i think i would make him talk to me about things that bother him more as he tries to be strong for us both.
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That he wouldn't be so sensitive. I love him, but he takes everything to heart! It could be that I'm too direct!
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His lack of tolerance for things he doesn't agree with. Just because opinions differ doesn't mean the other person is always wrong, and he's always right. Frustrating!
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the morning look its worse than any scary movie!?!?
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The she no longer has the joint pains that come with fibromyalgia.
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I might change him so that we have more meaningful conversations. I'm fine with him the way he is, though. On another note: I might change who his parents are or at least their attitudes. ;)
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I would make her stop trouncing around in high heels everyplace. Sometimes when it is below zero degrees with a windchill, I will tell her what she is doing is stupid but even other times I dont like it. I like practical things, high heels suck.
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Her gender
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His hair, it used to be Jet Black, now he has several strands of GREY in it!!
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If you'd been married as long as I, you would call this question a "man-trap"- :) at least that's what my friends and I have learned over the years. Answer-Nothing would I change-I love her just the way she is! And that is the truth
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His occasional racist tendencies =| The one thing i cannot stand about him, although sometimes i wonder if he overplays it just to annoy me. x
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She ain't perfect (close:)), but the one thing would be her ability to make a friken' decision. Annoys me to no end.
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It is best to only concentrate on changing one's self. All other effort is wasted energy.
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what would u change abt your love listen i lov e someone then i will never change anything abt her ,coz i want her as i lov e her talk, her habbits jer pasion her attitude her foolishness everything i .......i never
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I am sorry you feel this way - I think it is possible to love smeone and still dislike certain traits. This is my opinion. I would change a few things about the love of my life.. But it doesnt mean that I dont love them. Sorry you were offended.
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His horrible,extremely-single-and-always-interfering-sister!!!
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Obviously, we can't make people change unless they want to change themselves. But if I could, I'd make him less of a momma's boy and more of a lonelydragon's boy. ;) lol
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I wish he was more faithfull ..
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if i could change one thing it would be that he thought more about me and us instead of just him all the time and to put me first before his homies...
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...... when he gets mad at a person on the road (like minor road rage) he yells. Angry Yelling freaks me out. He doesn't do it anymore thankfully. Other than that though, He's perfect!
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bigger Beatles fan...
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I love my wife as she is. I prefer to focus on how she is and how I love her and accept her. Yes she has bumps and warts and wrinkles...but I accept her as she is and love her for everything that she means to me. I believe that to get into the subject of "changing" is to venture onto dangerous ground. Yes, there are qualities in others that I admire...but I have concluded that the qualities in my wife are best for me. Yes, I have "adjusted" to her but this is also needed in any relationship. So I suggest that it may not be wise to focus on changing another. Focus instead on accepting them, as they are, warts and all. I have found joy and happiness in accepting my wife as she is.
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The distance away from me physically!
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He'd live in NJ.
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she would be "mrs weareallhypocrites" instead of that last name she has now
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he is a little bit of a racist and i dont like that at all..most of the time he is fine..but then he will say something that makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up..He is basically a very good man..he just bases opinions based on very limited experience sometimes..i guess we are all guilty of that on occasion..but it does bother me....
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from alcoholic and nicotine addict to NON alcoholic and Non nicotin addict...opsss that 2 things...
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His tendency to blame me when he can't find something!
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I would take away her pain (fairly severe arthritis).
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Absolutely nothing.
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Affection.
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Take away her cancer.
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smelly feet.
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I wish he would concentrate more on the details, cause the details really do matter.
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I'd just be happy to have someone to call S/O at this time ....
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Her sexual desire, I would increase it!
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He can go days without sleeping and be fine and expects the same from me. He is crazy! I need my sleep!
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I'd turn her into a rich, 20 year old Asian girl that owns a liquor store.
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I`d make him less hard headed.He knows this.Even his Dad said so.But we love him,he`s a good guy!
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I'd trade mine in on a younger model.
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that she open up more :-)
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That she wasn't my hand.
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that he was a little more physically affectionate when were NOT having sex..
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his delusional image of what a woman has to look like to be worth anything
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that they wernt a figment of my imagination lol
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his indifference when it comes to decisions, I need to work on that too though. Reading the answers so far, I'm feeling pretty lucky. =X
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http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/129711 What's going on with this site? No imagination any more?
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The fact that he is insecure about things sometimes.
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nothing
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My husband is great with his outside building, cars, trucks, boats keeping things organized but in the house he's a slob...I would change that in a minute.
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his family!!!! maybe then he wouldnt be so highly oppinionated
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I want my WIFE as she is .... no change....
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mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i'd change his pants...he looks better with them....off
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he wouldnt have to work so much. I hate that I dont see him any more than maybe 5 or 6 hrs in a week.
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