Girls, if you were a virgin would you have a one night stand with someone who is engaged to another person and twice your age? In other words, the first time you had sex, would it be with someone 2x your age who is getting married in 2 months 2 another?

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• So, for you, you would be willing to give up your virginity to a one night stand who is engaged to someone else AS LONG AS you had a strong desire for you him. In other words, when you looked at him and talked to him that he gave you a such a strong feeling that you would be willing to be with him sexually regardless of the situation? To say it another way, he is so hot your panties will drop on their own. I am not judging, I am just clarifying.

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  by CC has lost it on March 24th, 2009

• Yes. But make sure you won't be attached to him afterwards. Be very clear that it's only sex, nothing more.
  
  And...most importantly, practice safer sex.
  
  Oh, don't tell his future wife.

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  by bettybaby on March 24th, 2009

• What do you think is future wife might have to say if she found out?

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  by CC has lost it on March 24th, 2009

• I see that you might be the guy who is trying to lure the woman half of your age to bed.
  ha!
  
  Either she would say: Divorce (oh, not yet married yet, huh? Then...Cancel the wedding!)
  Or
  Let's do a threesome!

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  by bettybaby on March 24th, 2009

• LOL! "Let's do a threesome!" That was pretty good!
  
  No, I am not the dirty old man. My wife (before I met her) went after an older man who was already engaged and I am trying to figure out what she was thinking. It doesn't make any sense to me, but as I guy, I don't understand the feelings a woman might have to have sex in that situation.

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  by CC has lost it on March 24th, 2009

• I see. Really, is it that hard to understand?
  I find it hard to understand how guys can just have sex with anyone with no feelings attached.
  I lost my virginity to an unattractive guy who had sex with a lot of women. I don't regret it, cos it was an experimentation for me as well. I wanted to see if I can separate love and sex. I think I can, but it's hard to get rid of that intimate feeling with that person. But that guy didn't care and went on to have sex with another woman the next night.
  As for virginity, I think it's overrated.

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  by bettybaby on March 24th, 2009

• You make a good point, some guys have sex very easily. The tough part is that our sex life is horrible, yet she was willing to have sex in this situation.

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  by CC has lost it on March 24th, 2009

• Maybe it's a curiosity thing for her when she did it. Now that she's not so curious anymore, she doesn't have the urge to have sex.
  Try to be more creative. (Maybe dress and act like a dirty old man?)

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  by bettybaby on March 24th, 2009

• I will get my trench coat out and walk around the house asking, "Hey little girl, do you want some candy!!" LOL!

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  by CC has lost it on March 24th, 2009