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Yep! My step mother in law (my husbands father remarried) has absolutely no use for me or my son. Does it bother me? At times because my son is awesome and deserves his grandparents love.
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Long story, but I wrote my mother off. Didn't talk to her for about 20 years. Now she is dead.
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Yes. My older brother has pretty much disowned our remaining family.
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No, but I am written off four of them.
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I have written off my dad and my mom is boarderline written off. And both with good reason.
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brother written off by me mum dad
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I don't speak to my brother anymore since he behaved despicably to my parents. We hadn't got on for years before that. They still talk to him. I'm done with him.
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I have not done so and to my knowledge no one has ever done that to me! :)
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My ex-wife wrote me off when she found out I had cancer ( from Agent Orange exposure while in Vietnam ). Does that count?
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After sticking me with an $8000 car payment, if I never saw my son or ex-wife again... ...IT WOULD BE TOO SOON.
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My Mom, Brother and his wife. I had spent over 40 years waiting on them hand and foot and putting up with their criticism and ridicule of everything I have done or would do in my life. I am a much happier person now that they are no longer a burden to me.
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My dad wouldn't speak to my brother even on his deathbed and I didn't speak to him for over 20 years.
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For over 20 years my entire family thought of me as dead, because I married a black man. And for some I still am.
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Two of my five brothers verbally and physically abused me as a child, and made me so shy I was incapable of expressing any confidence in myself. This made getting and keeping jobs extremely difficult, and ruined personal relationships all my life, thousands of missed opportunities and lonely nights of despair. I live in poverty, being forced to pay support to a former spouse who is an abusive drunk and has a household income close to $100,000. I am the youngest, in very good health, and look forward to shitting on their graves. Should I contract a terminal disease, I plan to eliminate them both before I go. I do not recommend following this example.
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I wrote off my sister in 2004 after she murdered my mother . I recently wrote off my nephew because he would not pay rent or accept responsability around the house etc ... He called Saturday and wants to come back by ... says he has money on his old account for me and wants to apologize in person for screwing things up between us ..
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My father hasn't spoken to me in 32 years because I was pregnant before marriage.
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Yes. All of them, save for my little sister. It was mutual.
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I have written off one of my mother's cousins. She use to beat me against my head with my hairbrush until I got blacked out and awoke looking as if I have been in a motor vehicle accident. Worst part is my mother paid her to take care of me. She's NOTHING of me.
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I've written off most of my family.
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Yes I have. Not an easy choice, but a necessary one.
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everyone but my mom has written off my little sister. my older sister should get an order to block visitation, the state took her accessory, I mean daughter and gave her to my older sister, all megan does when they meet is subvert any progress that may be made in giving her a stable life.
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Yes, I as well; and it breaks my heart.
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I don't speak to my brother, my sister or my mom unless it is business. I am much better off, they were always my poison.
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I was written off by my oldest son, thanks to his mother..my ex, but I refuse to write him off. It has been over ten years since I have talked to him but I still have a little hope that one day he will see the truth and at least talk to me again.
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I've writen off my stepfather, he's just a generic crochety old man. One of the things that annoyed me about my mom marrying him was that he is so much older than her, literally old enough to be her father. Being from an older time, he's never seen anything wrong with racist talk, and even insulting the Native American part of my heritage. He also throws "tantrums" on a regular basis when things aren't going his way. Basically, I've relegated him to a waiting-to-pass-on status (which may not be too long, considering his age).
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i dont really talk to my dad or brother. im not close to any of my family but i would br happy to never see them 2 in paticular again
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I have been written off and I have written off family members but we always end up making up. The longest I went without talking to someone I really care about was 2 years (my mom).
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I haven't seen any of my blood relatives in 10-20 years, and have no burning plans to do so.
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I didn't have any contact with my grandparents and my mom's two sisters for over 15 years; they were extremely dysfunctional and blamed me for an accident that happened when I was a child. There was no build-up, I just stopped talking to them (we lived in a different state so it was pretty easy). I've recently gotten back in touch with my grandmother, but it's a very tentative relationship with minimal contact.
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When i was 16 my mum left home (26 years ago). I never saw her again. and only received 2 or 3 short letters from her, until she died a few years ago. And also a few years ago my father decided to move away to another city but he didn't tell me. I haven't seen or heard of him since. The fact that people I thought I was close to, can disappear out of my life without a reason or saying a word seems to be the big lesson in life for me :)
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