by 
Lucybell
ANSWERS: 13
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I can't do anything to spice up your marriage, we're not even on the same continent. :-)
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role play ,dress up ,buy new clothes for the bedroom
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How about a little ATM?
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Start working out. You know exercise. Start looking hotter and feeling better. Make it a game. The winner of each little bet along the way gets to choose what they want you to do. This way you both get better looking. It's a challenge against each other so it's fun (if you do things together)and the bets can be anything you want because you are married. Ok. Well, not anything. I've been together with my wife for 19 years. She wasn't interested in the exercise thing. I decided to do it for myself (a new years thing). Since january '08 I lost 20 lbs of fat gained about 7 lbs of muscle. I was 6'2" 192, now I am 6'2" 177 and look better physically than when I was 18. I get noticed now from friends and neighbors which means that my wife has to notice it too. You want to make it more exciting or different, make yourself different.Oh bye the way, since January of '09, my wife has started excercising.
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Tell your partner one truth of what you would like to try out in bed. If they like the idea try it. Being open will lead to more.
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Take a second honeymoon? Rent a beach house?
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spend more money & time on yourself !
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Tell him/her you love them and maybe if you have been stuck in the same place, maybe a change is needed?
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You haven't said whether you're still in love so I'll assume you are. Make a list of what you expect out of life and the things that could/should change. Then sit down and talk to your partner about it. Do more social activities together...dancing, bowling, billiards, painting, hiking, etc. Any activity done together means you have things to talk about. Discuss how things could change in the bedroom...clothing or costumes, toys, music, foreplay, massage, etc. But remember that a physical relationship is maintained with a great mental relationship. You need to stimulate each other without saying a word!
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Been married to the same lady for 43 years. Here is what we do....... Once a month, i will pick a surrounding town to go spend the night in a nice hotel. The next month, its my wifes turn. It gives us something to look forward to and works wonders for our love life. Use your imagination. thats why God gave it to you.
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Consider a 3 way.
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When you are doing your wife in doggy style, call out another girls name and see how long you can hold on for.... sort of like a rodeo rider..
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Well take a trip together without kids. Just the two of you. Make breakfast for him in bed. Men love to feel good about what they do for us. Remind him that you are proud of him and respect him alot. When we figure them out and they figure us out its a whole new thing. Go someplace new and different from the same old same old.
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