Has anyone raised their children up very well, yet they turned out very bad?
by 
Charmaine Jay
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A friend of mine from way, way back when- she was given EVERYTHING a kid could ever want and need. She was disciplined well, she had an excellent family, she had.... everything. The education, loving family, friends, the list is endless. She is the most spoilt brat going. She is rude, obnoxious, evil, whiny little madam who walks the face of this earth. I hate that girl so much. She has everything I ever wanted, everything I tried so hard to get, and she just throws it back in their faces as if her family is nothing. But I think that is half the trouble. She didn't have to work for things, they were just there. And her parents spoilt her.
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I know children that have had brilliant parents turn out bad. By brilliant I am not referring to intellectual just very very good parents
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no matter how good you raised your children as far as they got out of your house they will eventually pick some attitude outside home, outside surrounding is a very big factor too to youngsters when it comes to behaivour..
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Yes. My best friend has three children. She & her husband raised them with love and affection and sensible limits. Two of the kids are wonderful. The third is addicted to alcohol and his life has lurched from one disaster to another. He has betrayed everyone who has ever been good to him -- even pretended, once, to be his brother in hopes of getting better treatment from the cops -- so his brother has to walk around with a judicial affidavit explaining the identity theft, lest he get brought in on that or another mistaken warrant! -- he has lost his wife and failed his daughters terribly. Some parents do the best they can -- some do the best ANYONE could possibly do -- but the kids turn out badly anyway. Some parents do a throroughly rotten job of raising their children -- child abuse, incest, neglect, failure to support -- and the kids turn out great. Probably a small minority in both cases, but sometimes, there are exceptions to what you'd expect.
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i know people that had fantastic parents and are really lucky to have their family but they chose to take the wrong path. i dont think its the parents fault its a choice the individual makes themselves.
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