Am I the only person who can't stand people who just say what you want to hear?
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SoDifficult
ANSWERS: 8
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I appreciate honesty. I rather hear the truth than a bunch of lies. Of course, a little tact while saying the truth doesn't hurt.
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No, it's normal in society for people to just BS you.
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No your not alone. I can not stand a butt kisser. I like the cold hard truth. We can not grow if we can't see fault within ourselves and sometimes it is nice when others can be forthcoming enough to tell us how it is.
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Noope, I hate pastic people.
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As you climb higher in the soial ladder it is inevitable that you pick up people following you who try to gain something from you by behaving in a way they think that will please you. Such people are actually doing you a disfavor in that they try to limit you to certain line of thinking and do not allow you to think out of the box. And only by thinking out of the box or by developing the ability to think outside your beliefs that you can any further progress. So the real friends are those who question your beliefs and convictions. They make you think. Therefore though it would be too harsh to hate those who behave the way you suggest, it would be better to educate them on what you want - a critical analysis of your beliefs and actions. This approach must work.
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Personally, just try to pleasant to be around. My opinion is not that important. Don't take myself very serious.
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Not at all. I dislike it strongly. I've called bullsh*t on here before when I had to give a less than popular answer to a question with answers that were all flowery and fake. But at the end of the day people know me to be a person of substance and character.
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"Please disease" people are normally inconfident and agree with people all of the time to be liked. I feel sorry for them.
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