I am not attracted to men that I want to change..That would be a total waste of time..lol :)

Some men or women just keep trying & trying & hoping he or she will change one day & sometimes a bad relationship will turn good in the end.

Men - Because one of the most attractive (non-aesthetic) features to the majority of men is simplicity and consistency. There are too many things changing out there - we just want something that we can come home to that we know won't be one of the several other things that we just can't seem to keep up with. Women - Because one of the most attractive (non-aesthetic) features to the majority of women is control/order and consistency. There are too many things out there that do not have the self-control that they have spent their entire adolescence perfecting and strengthening. So, since they have successfully gained their own self-control, they are confident that they can help others do the same (not just for men, but for children and those friends that everyone has who just seem to have nothing under control - ever (that's why those friends are friends)). Both sexes feel that if they are only to find that other (either that won't change or that can change), then they will have a happy relationship (happily ever after). However, both sexes will find that they will get more happiness when they realize that they cannot control every aspect of another whether they like it or not - and it's those everyday surprises and changes that make life interesting and worth living (and even though it may get stressful or frustrating at times, that only makes it much better once both get through it together).