ANSWERS: 7
  • Get active in another group and make friends, yes, friends. And help others. That always will take your mind of your own problems, even when that problem is a person. Oh, and make sure you've accepted that that girl is gone as an option in your life. Hanging onto the what ifs make for a horribly long, if ever, recovery.
  • Time, and having support and understanding from family and friends.
  • Go out and have some fun with a bunch of your friends.Do whatever it is that you like to do,and if a girl gives you her number,call her,but try not to compare her to the girl you are hurting over.
  • The girl was a part of your self esteem. Her departure was a kick in the gut. Learn to value your talents and character while continuing to just socialize with a few friends. You'll get stronger and the pain will diminish. A lot of girls will walk thru your life, find a way to keep it in perspective and keep on playing.
  • i have found the best way to be is to find another girl, not to get in a relationship with them just to hang out with someone that would pos become a girlfriend.
  • Well, it may seem rather unorthodox and mean, but it sure as hell worked for me Try and make the girl, in your mind, as repulive as possible. Think of all her bad qualities and magnefy them. Also, try to avoid them, try not to make eye contact. I know it seems harsh to the other person, they might not have done anything wrong, but it helps you go off them, then you can move on
  • My answer is time, it'll happen sooner or later. I have a friend who's answer was going to strip clubs with friends who would openly mock the ex. To each his own...

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