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There's no such thing as too forgiving. There's such a thing as people walking all over a person's forgiveness, though. The second person is the one with the attitude problem.
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I beg to differ with AnonymousGirl. In my opinion, you shouldn't have to worry about people stepping all over your forgiveness, so instead sometimes you have to play hardball. A person can only take so much before they start defending themselves.
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Oh yeah, forgiveness is a requirement in life but an excess results in people taking advantage of you. I love forgiving people, very considerate and kind.
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IDK, but i do hate people that are always saying "I'm sorry!" to everything!!
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No, I do not think so because it is the greatest virtue to be a forgiving person. One could only too unforgiving which is the nature that you and I may be familiar.
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Yes, of course. People stay in ruins because they don't know how to stand up for themselves, break free, and so forth. That being said - there is an indubitable strength to forgiveness when it is truly deserved.
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Yes, the more you forgive it seems the more you get ran over. This goes with all situations. Even though I do think it is good to forgive from time to time.
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Yes, I think so. There's a line between forgiveness and being a doormat. You can forgive someone, but not have anything else to do with them...in so much as, you know that if you continue your relationship, they will hurt you again. Look at it this way: A woman being beaten by her husband. Can she learn to forgive him? Yes. Should she return to him? Nope.
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Are you asking if it is o.k. to be a doormat? No, it's not o.k. If the hurt or whatever keeps occurring, then the person who does that really doesn't care about you at all. Why one would keep going back for more I have no idea. :)
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