Why do women have a problem with men if they don't like children and never want them? Are there any women who would date/marry a child phobic?
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I would. Kids take over your life! I have a puppy, and that is enough for me right now! I would be fine not having kids. And I would be fine having kids. Whatever happens, happens.
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Not all women have that problem. Maybe you're just after the wrong women. There are lots of women I know who don't want kids.. they're all in their 40s, but still..
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The guy I like doesnt want kids it kind of bothers me but not all women have a problem with it....
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If your plans in life include definitely having children then of course you would have a problem with a man you were with not wanting them, even now if I found out that my boyfriend never wanted children, I dont think I would be able to be with him.
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Of course there are. Not all women want kids either. I have one grown child...yes ONE.....because that's all I wanted. I don't want another one and would be suicidal if I got pregnant (not possible now but off subject). Yound women often think they want children, but not all. Some women are more focused on their careers and stuff they want to do besides take care of kids. Even a dog is a committment. A child...another story all together !!
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i know women who don't want/like children and they would prefer to date like-minded men
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i have kids, so this is a moot point for me! hell no! That would be marital suicide.
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If you feel this strongly, you should go out and get a vasectomy now so you don't ever get anyone pregnant by accident.
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I don't want kids, but I've already snagged my child-free mate. I don't know why some are like that, but it goes both ways.
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I can't stand kids. There will be no crotch critters springing from my loins. I would never date/marry someone who wanted them (for the record, I'm under 30) :)
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No way!!! For me, that's a deal breaker. MUST LOVE KIDS! What kind of person doesn't ADORE children? They are the future plus they're so gosh darn adorable! ;D
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Some women are career oriented and a kid would end their perception of what a career woman is.I am not saying having kids end careers,but having kids affects their ability to be there all the time,it does take time to be all that in the business world,if you have kids,that would pose a problem in the 'High End' of the business world.
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I don't have a problem with a man that doesn't want children. I don't/didn't want children. BUT, I would not marry/date a child phobic. I have too many nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews...oh, and a few former foster kids that now come around with their children.
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If a man is healthy, financially, physicaly and mentally they might want Kids. It shows that they are not selfish and having Kids is the sign of his sense of loving and responsibility as a male human.
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There are women who don't want kids and women who do. You can find men who don't want kids and men who do as well. You just have to find the right match
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I don't think I want kids. I wouldn't mind fostering (as I kind of do now). I'd rather be able to travel and move around. Also, for what type of job I want, I would have to travel all the time so it wouldn't be fair to the child. So no, I wouldn't mind dating/marrying a child phobic, I already do! =)
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It is every man and womans biological right and desire to want to procreate, just because you think you don't want kids now doesnt mean you sign a contract for the rest of your procreating life you never will. I would never date/marry a child phobic.
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It is more natural for a woman to be the nurturer than not. It is probably possible to find a woman who is into a career and doesn't care about having children.
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having children or not is kinda something that can not be compromised on. if you do not want children then you can not without giving that up satisfy the desire of someone who does want children. you should not even be trying to start an LTR with someone not compatible in this area... why should a woman who wants children date a childphobe? or vice versa... why would it not be relationship suicide for someone who does not want children to start an LTR with someone who does? I wager this is probably the most important area of compatibility seeing as it is an 18 year commitment MINIMUM
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Even if they don't immediately want children, women who do want to have children at some point of their life will often not accept to engage themselves deeply with a man who overtly proclaims that he does not like them at all. Anyway, the period of time where women can without any problem get children is not so long. If a woman want to have more than one child, it would be better for her to have her first child before 35. On the other side, there are certainly some women who have taken the definitive decision not to have children. Most of them are to be found among older women, though. Even if women don't want to have children themselves, this does not mean that they don't like children. Maybe they would like to keep the children of their siblings from time to time. So if you are a child hater, this would be a problem. There are also some women who theoretically don't want children, but who could consider keeping them if they become pregnant by accident. And there is no perfect birth control (except sterilization).
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I don't like kids. I wouldn't want kids at all.
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I have a problem with it because I'm 29 and want children myself. Therefore, he has to like and want children, otherwise there is no point in our relationship. It would be a deal breaker. You just need to find a female child phobic. There are plenty out there.
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I'd like to meet a man who never wants children. Every one just assumes -eventually- I'll want one. Yes. There are women who will date/marry someone who doesn't want children. The thing is, the point, physiologically on the basic level, of dating and marriage is procreation, so it hard to find someone who will never want children during the course of the relationship.
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