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  • Heck no!
  • Why would they? I seriously doubt it happens much unless they feel they are pregnant or caught an STD.
  • I never did, don't think other girls do either.
  • I don't think so. I didn't, and I don't think any of my friends did either.
  • NO! It's just one of those things that you never tell them, you just wait for them to asume your having sex when your in a serious relationship or married! haha
  • Well I didn't, and I was a girl last time I checked *checks* yep
  • No, I don't think most girls do, I certainly didn't. Some girls have a kind of relationship with their parents where they can openly discuss their sexual relationships - I don't have this kind of relationship and I really don't think my parents would be comfortable if I did discuss my sex life with them, I would be very uncomfortable doing this.
  • There's one that did. I sure as hell didn't tell them. I'll never forget the look on her Dad's face when I showed up at the door to help him shingle the roof a couple days later. We'd been going out for 2 years at the time too. No gun, no harsh words, but he wasn't a happy camper that day.
  • there would be very few if any girls who would discuss their sexual activity with their parents. Parents just hold their breath and pretend nothing is happening.
  • Definately not
  • I honestly think it depends on how close you are to your parents. I am extremely close to my mother, and although I didn't tell her right away, I told her about a year later. She said she already knew. I guess mothers really do know everything!
  • My mother took one look at my face and knew right away. (aren;t moms wierd like that) According to my father I will always be one until i have a baby haha
  • No, I really don't think so. I did,I told my mom the next day, but I absolutely do not think that is the norm.
  • I don't think so. I never did. As far as I know my parents still think of me as a virgin and I've been married twice and I have a son.
  • I lied about it for years.
  • oh GOD no. i didn't even share my first kiss with my parents. oh and girls will ESPECIALLY not share ANYTHING like that with their fathers. that's sooo weird. and awkward and just terrible. seriously i don't know that i'll ever really just be like "mom...you know i haven't been a virgin since i was 16 right? jeez." it's just a really awkward conversation unless you're REALLY open with your family.
  • No!!! Unless you are very very close to your parents. Because if you tell them they might not trust you when you go out with your friends anymore or just in general they might think of you as a slut. Or maybe not, maybe you're parents wont think that but I would never tell my parents. They would be so dissapointed in me and it would always be so awkward around them.
  • My mom wants me to, but I won't. I will tell her when I am thinking of doing it though, but that's just so she can take me to get birth control. I would do it alone, but I am shy sometimes. But no, I won't tell her when I actually do it.
  • i dont think so. As its a personal concept to disclose. but some might be doing it due to the feeling of insecurity. to putt off the heavy burden on their heart.
  • No! I would never tell my parents about it. In a way they know, but I would never go right out and tell them!
  • I doubt it... I think there's a fear attached to your parents finding out, if your a teen. That they'll be mad, or keep you away from the one you love.
  • UM......NO THAT WOULD BE CRAZY!
  • I just looked up your profile and see you are male. Frightened she might?
  • There are some things that are better left unsaid, this is one of them in my opinion. I can't imagine what my parents would have said if I had a conversation like, "yes, I aced my English Lit. test, can I borrow $10 to go to the movies?, I lost my virginity and no it wasn't all that great, so how was your day Mom (or Dad)?" I'm going to go with no based on my own experience.
  • No Way!!! But I dont even tell them who I'm dating. It's an invasion of privacy thing. When I did lose my virginity my mom rummaged through my room, finding the -day-after pill, because the guy I lost my virginity to was inconsiderate and.. The sex wasn't completely consensual. I didn't say no but it happened too quickly for me to do anything. I never thought it was all his fault , I just didnt think it was a healthy experience. So my mom says to me nastily "did you take care of your problem?" Some families just have a hard time talking about that stuff.
  • I never did. Mom was progressive to put me on birth control jic, no questions asked.
  • I didnt. Why would i? My dad would get pissed and hed hurt the guy and my mother would disown me. If i run that much risk with that, i aint gonna tell them much of anything
  • I haven't lost my virginity yet, but I have an extremely close relationship with my mom (she isn't afraid to tell me about her past experiences and mistakes and has faith in me that she can trust me, even if I make mistakes of my own) and I imagine that I will tell her soon afterward. My other mom, too! (Yes, you read right, I have two moms. X3 Mom's a late-in-life lesbian and let me tell you, her life has never been better and more happy.) Both of my moms have said that they want to hear all about my first experience with a girl (they know I'm bisexual). X3 Heehee, we have a lot of fun. Sex shouldn't be a taboo topic, but healthily respected. I think it's good to keep your parents posted, you know? So they can keep up with your life and mindset changes and be prepared to help you out when you need it.
  • No. I didn't. It is private information, and none of their concern. I might have spoken about it had they shown any inclination to do anything but judge me. For the record, I technically didn't "lose" my virginity. I very deliberately discarded it.
  • I don't believe so. Why should they? It's none of their business, to be honest. Stay out of your kids' pants.
  • I would think not, because I didn't. But I have friends who tell their parents everything, so it goes both ways.
  • wel i no i didnt i think its a private thing and even though when ur parents think you are doing it i think it would hurt them to much just to come out and tell them the truth so i wouldnt advise to do that!!!
  • i told mine, for a long time i think she thought i was sleeping around so it was a shock for her to discover i was a virgin. i told her out of respect i suppose, i have nothing to hide as i could go on the pill and not have to keep it a secret, i dont do 'secrets' im an honest person, but i have my privacy;just because i told her i had sex dont mean she knows the details!!
  • Most girls dont, but I did tell mine.
  • I told my mother. My father still thinks I'm a virgin though.
  • No. I highly doubt my dad would have wanted to know. It would have hurt him and I think there are some things that parents just should not be told for their own sake. Unless of course it is a situation in which the girl is too young or it was not willing. My mother gave me the birds and the bees talk not long after I had done the deed. She took me a steakhouse and it was rather sweet of her but I did not tell her.
  • I know that I definatley wont, but I doubt it would matter anyway seeing as my mother already thinks I have, she just assumed that I wasn't a virgin. I'm 17 so I'm not sure whether I should feel offended or not. My best friend has a similar problem because people always assume that she's not a virgin as well, so we both get kinda annoyed.
  • no...my mom just assumed that my sister had sex, and she doesn't think i have...i'll tell her later down the line when i know for sure there's something solid for me to tell her instead of saying hey mom i slept with this guy that i'm interested in who i know likes me too lol
  • no way, i'm sure if i needed to talk about it my mum would have been there, but i think it would be way too cringy
  • hell no! my mom still thinks im a virgin. she always says i can come to her but she would freak i kno it.
  • i told my mom. were really really close tho. she wasnt exactly proud, but she didnt dog me out.
  • Mom practically force me to tell her, and I'm a terrible liar so there was no way out of it LOL.
  • I lost my virginity to my parents...they molested me from the time I was born I think...but when I was 10 (they said it was my birthday present) my mom held me in her arms while my dad raped me...of course at the time i didnt think of it as rape cuz sexual play with my parents was "normal" to me by then. I have 3 daughters of my own now and we have totally open communication when it comes to sex, but I know from talking even with her friends that 99% of parents dont have a clue about what their daughters are doing when it comes to sex. My parents died in a car crash just after my 19th birthday, so I guess karma finally caught up with what they did to me!
  • HAHAHA HELLLLZZZ NOOOOOOOOOOO i lost it 2 years ago....when i was 14 and my mom stil thinks im a precious little angel lol i think she might have an...idea tho hahah she lets me spend the night at my boyfriends house =p so ...she would kinda have to be retarted to not know thattt..hahah
  • Hell no!! Most girls don't tell their parents because it's their private life and unless if you're going to bring home a baby it's really none of their business. My mother is a hysterical, Roman Catholic and she wouldn't be able to handle it if I ever told her that I lost my virginity! I'm glad that I did lose it, but I'm not about to tell her. If I had no choice but to tell 1 of my parents; I would definately tell my father who is protestant. He would be happy he raised and intelligent, young woman who was smart enough to give it up with an intelligent, contraception-savy agnostic. My mother would be just devastated.
  • I most certainly didn't tell my parents, but they figured it out last night and my mom slapped me a bunch and called me a lot of really cruel things. My father was convinced the guy was looking to marry me; drain my bank account and give me HIV/aids. Even though I used PLENTY of protection, my brother spent almost an hour chasing me around the house telling me, "If you're pregnant, don't abort your baby. Give it up for adoption!" It got so unbearable that I had to run away from home at 2 in the morning. At least I left them a 2-page letter saying I wouldn't be coming back any time soon. I wandered around town on the streets from 2:30 in the morning until a little bit past 4. The guy I slept with was in Las Vegas and therefore couldn't help me and wasn't even aware of the situation at this time. So I went to his parent's house and they let me stay there. I left the next day in the afternoon and am now at home. I don't know what to do now. He'll be back from Vegas sometime on Monday; thankfully I finally managed to contact him.
  • no way god i'd die if they knew haha im 16 and have been with my bf for 1 yr n a 1/2 i lost my virginity bout 5 months ago but mine dont no well i hope they dont anyway haha
  • I didn't tell my mom I lost my virginity one the night I lost it I was eleven and still her innocent little girl or at least she thought so I told her like six years later

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