That depends on where you live, what Country that is. In the USA that is not cool, because you are considered an adult in the eyes of the law and she is still a juveline. If you became sexually involved you could be arrested for statutory rape.

Isnt she a bit young?

Yeah my husband is 11 years older than me. It's funny how it's only too young when your young. But the older you get the more acceptable it is. Just be careful. Good luck mate.

run forrest run - she's jailbait dear

Im 20 and my (for now) girlfreind is 16. I was told to dump her because of her age.

It's kinda stupid that people (usually women) ASSUME that all over 18 yr old men are out to screw young girls and hurt them in some way. I just want to see her thats all!

if ya love eachother then theres no problem u just gotta get her family 2 love u bcause if htey dont they could call the cops.

Im sure your a nice person. I dont think this can be a very healty relationship being that 1. You are both at such diffrent points in your life of maturing, and 2. Its against the law. No girl is worth going to jail for!! But if you really feel so strongly for her, and put things on hold until she is of age. If you really love her, and your freedom its the only right thing to do. And it will really show you if your feelings for her are real.

I was.I'm 19 now but when I was 16 I started dating a guy who was 21. We dated for about 2 years and are still great friends. So I see nothing wrong with it if you really care for the person. Good luck hope it helps

I was 15 and my (now) husband was 19 when we met. We started dating a year later. My mom was concerned at first, but agreed after meeting him that we acted about the same age. I was engaged by 19 and married at 21 and don't regret a single day.

Can't say I have problem with this, just put a shirt on next time you take a photo of yourself.

Have fun, just be sure her dad is not a cop or a prison guard. Also, remember that if you have sex, technically it is statutory rape and if someone wants to make trouble for you, they could potentially use this to get you in trouble.

whether or not I am is not the question. Are you in this relationship for the long haul or are you into the sex? Either way the age difference is too much at that age.

You do realize you are dating a minor and you are an adult. do you realize that her parents can sign a warrant on you, for chid rape, if you two are having sex, consenual or not? You are treading on very thin ice. If she becomes pregnant and you are responsible, you can expect a major recourse action from her parents.

I'm a 15 year old girl dating an 18 year old guy and I'll be turning 16 in may too. I know how you're feeling... my parents don't accept him at all so we have to sneek around together all the time.. it really sucks to have to do that, but we love each other with everything we have, through thick n thin and we're not gonna break up just because of stupid laws..

well yeah, i am a 19 year old girl dating/living with a 26 year old man. 15 and 18 are not that far appart

No, but I was once a 15 year old girl going out with an 18 year old boy. And when I was 17 I went out with a 24 year old for 2 years. My Mum and Dad used to like him, they would have him round for tea and things and talk about how well spoken he was, until they found out we'd been going out for a while, and then they wanted to kill him. We carried on seeing each other anyway but it did cause some trouble at home for a while, so just becareful.

We'll I must agree, with you man, I'm 18 dating a 15 year old.. the day after i turn 19 she turns 16, lol We'll its a very scary matter, her mom actually told her to tell her if she was HAVING SEX, so she could be put on birth control, I love her with every thing in me, I also have to say that, I'm a good person, i havent been in any trouble ever, No jail,no Juvy, Only got detention in school once lol, but whats funny, teenagers explore, I think that the law on this matter is wrong, Me and her liked each other before we really knew each others ages.. She looks like she's 18, and i have failed a year in school, so she thought i was a junior at the age of like 16-17. I dont know what to do with this matter, i will not leave her, nor break up with her, i cant. I would never find anyone else like her, so if it takes going to jail, idc, let it happen... Also if some one is put in jail for satitary rape. does that put them as a sex affender .. I know this is all very confusing,.. just mostly needed to get all this off my consience..

I'm 14 and in a somewhat relation with a boy who is 18. either of us will ever be together cause of the age, which hurts alot. but we still see eachother and stuff. Plus, I dont act or look my age whattt soo ever.

im in the exact situation my bf is 18 and im 16 in 2 months.. my parents are fine with it and they know we have sex.. they like him. it all depends on how her parents are... my mom is great she loves him.. just be careful..i know i sure as hell am.=]

well i am in the same boat as you. i mean, except i the girl am the older one. hes 'the age'here in december. his parents are ok with us. its just the fact everyone thinks its odd..for god sakes, im only 18...lol

I'm in the same situation, however, my girlfriend is turning in a couple of weeks. We don't have sex, but I'm really concerned about going to jail over this. I really love her, and want to spend my life with her but FUCK! I'm going crazy right now over this, even though I fall under my home states(Texas) three year rule for stuff so I won't be charged with statutory rape. I just don't want that shit on my record. I've never had trouble with the cops, I'm an honor student in college, I volunteer my free time to help those in need, and yet this shit could blow all of that straight to hell if something happens to her!

My ex is 17 and I'm 15. We had different views on things and always fought about the dumbest things. He always wanted to be alone and I just wanted to cuddle and talk. We were completely different and realized it wouldn't work out. My parents didn't approve of him either because they thought he only wanted sex.(true) If you two have sex then it's a whole nothing situation. Just play it safe and be extra careful on what you two do and when. You might regret it one day.

If you two aren't sexually active, then it's okay. It's not like she's 12 and you're 21, you know? Besides, I'm a senior girl dating a freshman guy.

Yeah, My Was soon to be boyfriend broke it off with me a couple days ago. and he is 18 well i'm 15 so it just sucks cause i really did like him. I was so upset. turns out he was gonna ask me out this weekend but i guess someone scared him out of it. So keep doing what your doing. i wish my guy was more like you:l

I'm a girl. When i was 15 i was with an 18yr old. it all just depends on the mental matureness of each of you.

This is the same as my situation. The only thing is that my parents are not ok with it, yet her parents really trust me want me to be a part of her life. And yes, sex is something to stay away from until she is 18, im sure you have already told yourself that too. i know i have, i dont want to get into any trouble either but i dont care who you are, when you love someone as much as i love her, or as much as you love her, you cant just walk away from it.

Im 18 and your probably still in high school man most girls your age are probably like at my school there with there 22 yr old boyfriends or older. As long as your careful nothin will happen man dont worry about it if you like the girl be with her i would if i was in your shoes. Honestly who decides who you like and or date you if you think theres no problem with it go with it.

My daughter is dating an almost 19 year old guy who won't stay at a college that is 1 1/2 hours away. Home every weekend. She is 15, almost 16. I am very worried about her. She's an excellent student, but doesn't have any close friends. Her closest friend is now doing drugs and she's mad at her. I am worried this guy will finaly coerce her into having some sort of sex when she turns 16. My other daughter is a cheerleader and isn't dating at all. I just want my daughters to take it slow. This guy should go to college and do the college thing. He keeps coming back and hanging around his old high school. I never did that. I knew it was time to "move on". If they like each other enough, then let them get together later on in life. I don't want her to miss out on high school life. It is so much fun! She's a good athlete too, playing on the varsity soccer team and track team.

no as long as you respect her. oh, and no sex until she is 18. if you really love her you'll wait for her.

serz.... get some1 ure age ffs.... suffer from low self esteem??? cant u get some1 ure age? ure just taking advantage of some1 who doesnt even know what love is.... at least she isnt 14 :P like some1 i know..... its wrong.... i dont care if ure not having sex... ure more experienced then her.... u are an ADULT!!!!!! she is a minor!!!!! CANT U SEE THE TAKING ADVANTAGENESS???? dont give me the "she loves me and i love her" she dont know what love is and u just want some1 coz u probly cant get anyone else.......ure lucky im not her father..... even tho im 18 xD

well i am an 18 year old girl wanting to date a 15 yr old guy and its really hard for me because i am so scared of what will might happen but try not to do anything sexual all of a sudden if that is too hard for u lol. im in the same situation everyone and everybody thinks im bad and im sure his parents would hate me. yikes help. xoxox

dont worry im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 so its almost the same thing 3 years of difference

I'm not in your situation, but I honestly don't see a problem with it as long as the two of you aren't breaking any laws. It seems like the two of you really like each other or at least did when you asked this question..

I was just over 14 when I met my husband to be who was almost 19. We took it very slow and just got to know each other for 4 years. I was positive I wanted to be 18 to get married and I was positive he was the guy for me. I was a virgin on our wedding night. I was 18 and he was almost 23. We've been married 35 years now:-)

im 19 my gf is 16, but she was 15 when we started dating. Just make sure that her parents approve. Thats what i did. I talked to her on the phone when we first started talking, then i went out to eat with her and her mom. Her mom liked me and allowed us to date. I later met her dad and he liked me too, and allows us to date. We have been together for 5 months and everything is going great.

AGE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER. when I was 15 my bf was 20 when I was 16 my bf was 22 then the one after 23

Why is it a bad thing? Honestly, the only girl im considering dating is 15... and im 19. It sucks, very badly... I've already told her and promised myself I wouldn't touch her until we're married (or at least till shes 18) so if I dont break the law, whats the problem? Im a christian, and so is she, so sex really shouldn't even be part of it... Shes 110% more like me then any girl I know my age

i was in the same situation i was 15 and my recently ex is 18...and our parents were concerned but most girls my age are mature and its not a big deal to me but sex is a different story you know...

i've been in that situation the most important thing is to take it slow but if u like each other then dont let the age differance get in the way

MY BOYFRIEND IS 18 AND IS TURNING 19 AND I AM 15 AND WONT BE 16 NTIL FERURARY OF 2009. MY BOYFRIEND AND I TRULY AND DEEPLY LOVE EACHOTHER BUT MY DAD AND MY AUNTS AND UNCLES AND ONE OF MY GRANDPARNTS HAVE AN EXTREME PROBLEM WITH ME BEING WIT AND 18 YEAR OLD. THEY THINK HE ONLY WANTS ME FOR SEX BUT I KEEP TELLING THEM IF THAT WAS TRUE HE WOULD HAVE DUMPED ME A LONG TIME AGO AND MY MOM IS THE ONLY ONE WHO LOVES MY BOYFRIEND AND TRUSTS HIM WITH ME AND HE HASN'T BROKEN HER TRUSTS YET MY MOM INTRODUCED ME TO HIM (IT WAS A FUNNY STORY BUT TO LONG TO RITE). I AM THE ONLY ONE OUT OF ALL MY FRIENDS THAT HAS TOLD MY FAMILY ABOUT MY BOYFRIEND. MY DAD IS VERY UPSET WITH ME AND HASN'T CALLED ME IN ALMOST 4 DAYS AND THAT IS NOT LIKE HIM AT ALL. HE ALSO KEEPS USING STATUTORY RAPE AS AN EXCUSE AND I TOLD HIM IT IS NO STATUTORY RAPE IF WE R NOT HAVING SEX AND WE R NOT AND HE SAID HE WILL WAIT FOR ME JUST AS LONG AS HE CAN SEE ME AND SPEND TIME WITH ME HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT SEX!!!!! MY DAD EVEN LIED AND SAID THAT KISSING ON A PARK THAT THE POLICE CAN STOP AND ASK US FOR ID AND ARREST HIM AND I SAID IF THAT WAS THE CASE THEN EVERY KID IN HIGH WOULD BE ARRESTED. COMMON SENSE WOULD TELL A PERSON THAT THE POLICE WILL NOT ASK A COUPLE FOR ID IF THEY R KISSING ON A PARK BENCH. I NEED ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD SAY TO MY FAMILY ESPECIALLY MY DAD BECAUSE IT BREAKS MY HEART THAT MY DAD IS THIS UPSET WITH ME HE EVEN SAID HE NOW DOESNT WANT ANY PART OF MY SWEET 16!!!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO?????

You mean "on the way to jail" if you get carried away?

your a piece of shit. leave the little girl alone and find someone your own age. 15 is too young for a girl to be having sex.

I'm 17 and about to turn 18 on the 22nd of this month. My girlfriend is 15. We got to know eachother from school and we found that we really liked eachother. After going to her house getting to know her family and attending church with them they know that I'm not the type of guy to disrespect her. They know im almost 18 and i asked her mom if i could date her. Her mom was cool about it and said it was fine with her as long as i respected her daughter and wasn't a player. lol. So if you can get permission from her parents and they're cool about it I think it would be a lot better on your part or that ass can be going to jail lol.

Yeah i've been in similar situations if you like her than go for it and ignore what other people say.

yeahh.. my girlfriend is 15 and in 17 turning 18 in a few months sucks dont it

You get caught you will find out all you need to know about young vulnerable people being fucked by older guys!

I was a 15 year old girl dating a 21year old boy once then 16, dating 23yearold.

Nothing wrong with the age gap...and, if her parents are in agreement, nothing wrong with dating a 15 year old girl. You know the rules though, right? NO SEX....she isn't old enough to go that far yet....and you could be in BIG trouble. As the legal adult it is up to you to keep your head above your hormones!

No, but just dont have sex until she comes of age. DOnt want to get yourself into trouble. Its fine anyway...

I did it when I was 18. technically it might not be legal where you live, but morally its really just a matter that should be more dependent on the maturity that both of you share. I've met several young women who have a great deal more maturity than women twice their age because of their experience. Basically if she is still interested in playing with dolls and Holly Hobbie cookware and you are thinking about sex, then its probably NOT ok. Otherwise, if its ok with the Mom, then don't sweat it. just dont corrupt someone's purity if you are not going to marry them. That's worse than killing someone.

Dude, im going throught the same situation right now,, Its terriable, is like her parents dont even know me at all, and i only see her in school, but she kind of freaky and i just ge the same way...when we're in the class i cant stop looking at her and its like i just want to be close to her(24/7). But the worst part of all, is that we had sex.

yea im about to turn 19 in a few months and my girl is 15, i dont see nything wrong with it, age is just a number, and from wat ive seen its only illigeal if you have sex

ok but here is a crazy one for all of u so im 18 and i was born on April 12 and she is 16 and was born on June 21, now here mom dose not like me but her dad dose and so dose her grandmom and grandfather, now her mom and dad are no longer 2geather and thay share the rights for her, but her mom took her away 2 MN and her Grandparents went 2 and the dad is still here in MA but he plans on moving soon 2, could i be gettin in to some trouble? and also she wants 2 get emancipated and live with me is that illegal?

I am fifteen and my boyfriend is fifteen, I think it's fine as long as you know what could happen. Such as with the law and her parents...

yess! it is finee :))

Hey, I'm a 20 (just turned) year old that is dating well engaged should I say to a 16 almost 17 year old in Febuary we almost exactly 3 years apart and well we've been together for four years already about fall time we decided we were ready for sex or should I say she was we were both virgin's we both lost it to each other and we went into a hotel. Now I say she was ready because she really wanted this to happen because she wanted it that bad I said no but she kept asking so why not I said yes, anyway so we went into the hotel and had sex. No her parents didn't like me because I was once bisexual or gay how ever you see it, not because of my age. One of her parents knew a lady at the hotel and got video footage of us walking into the room so we went to a meeting with our pastor of our church he called me a pervert threw a phone at me and told me about his gay brother and was bad mouthing him, they then got a restraining order against me. I can't talk to her or see her but I will never end it with her over this love is love no matter what. So I decided for valintines I'm gonna buy her something and take a picture of it put it somewhere she could accidently see it and give it to her once were back together. Like I said her bday is the same month a couple days later so yes I was in the same position if you decide to have sex don't do it where anyone else knows about it.

ohh wow. im sorry about what happened. but thank you for the advice. andd; what the pastor did was very wrong. don't pay attention to him. i'm very sorry.

Im in the same situation. Its quite nice dating someone who is young, sucks about not having sex but someone has got to have been in the same situation where they've actually dunnit and not told?

im was in the same situation but iwas dumoed becuz he listened to his auntie n she claimed it would be rape but we were only together for five days but i dont think 3 years iz anything a freshman dating a senior

My boyfriend is 18 and i'm 14. We are three years and two months apart. So for about two months we are only three years apart. We are falling had for eachother. So yes i'm in your situation.

i am 13 years old and my boyfriend is 16. so its kinda the same situation. my parents are fine with it, but his parents hate it we've been dating for a year now, and they still dont let us hang out or even talk on the phone. the only time i ever see him is at school.

not the age situation but i am dating someone that is older than me ....