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Cynthia
ANSWERS: 10
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by leading by example - be more loving.....
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have him come home to you wrapped in cellophane
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Have you tried asking? I know it's taboo, but guys really do need things to be spelled out to them, especially about what you need from a relationship. Explain exactly what it is you want him to do.
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lead by example, show him how it could be
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It's feels like such a big deal to ask, and I know you want him to come up with it on his own, but he needs you to communicate this. It's ok to say "can I get a cuddle". Maybe he just isn't the affectionate type. Most guys aren't. But he is yours, your husband, and if you love each other, and need affection, don't be afraid to ask.
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nothing has worked for me with my bf. i'm very loving towards him, to lead by example, iv'e told him flat out that i would like a hug or i want to cuddle. he rarely ever shows affection toward me. he's not mean, there's just no touching and i'm beginning to think that maybe i would be better off by myself or with someone else; but i'm not interested in other guys. so i'm stuck.
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If you're trying to force him to, stop. No one wants to do something like that when it feels like a chore. The more you force, the more the other person will put it off. It needs to be natural.
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Give him a shot of estrogen. No, it's very hard to do this.
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great question!!!!!! This is a tremendous problem for the majority of married women. A few suggestions: dont point out his mistakes too much (he wants to feel idolized) when you are away from the bedroom, touch him, hold his hand, when you talk, touch his cheek dont lie, but tell him the things you love about him. if he is sloppy, dont lie and say you love that, but if he has a great smile, tell him. find a way to help him see that affection will make you want him more sexually (and dont bend on that)
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Demonstrate interest in who he is, what he likes to do etc.. i.e. go fishing with him or out to play pool.. Ive found the occasional bite works well.. Men are not complicated so try to think on those terms..
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