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by somewhere Pll loves her dawgy on December 15th, 2008
Here are some of them:
by Daniel on December 15th, 2008
Well, I emerged dazed and confused from a 13-year marriage at the ripe age of 33, with no kids. The single state lasted about a year. Like with parking spots, I think the trick is to drive slowly and keep your eyes open :-)
by Old School on January 5th, 2009
Speaking as an available heterosexual childless single male in the age range mentioned....
We're around, but...
--many of us have been so scarred by previous marriages/relationships that we're reluctant to try again.
--many of us are discouraged by the extant to which women treat men as wealth/status objects.
--many of us are discouraged by the overly stringent qualification criteria women place on potential partners (...must be 6'+ tall, graduate degree, non-smoker, etc.)
--many of us are discouraged because most WOMEN from 35-50 already have children, whom we don't wish to parent.
--many of us prefer social/recreational activities that are male-dominated (sports, vehicles, handyman projects, etc.), so we rarely get to meet similarly eligible women.
These are just a few reasons that you may not be running into as many eligible men as you hope.
Perhaps it's time for women seeking such men to rethink how they're going about it?
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by jas on December 28th, 2008
They are around, but most are looking for a woman who is 18-25.
by TheicidalManiac on December 15th, 2008
At gay bars
by TammyBouellee on December 15th, 2008
Hi there. A brit speaking here...
Blokes here commonly have kids from 18 years old.
So by 35-50, they have half a dozen or more.
So NONE here in England! ;)
by youngster on December 15th, 2008
They are busy raising their kids....
by Gene H on January 5th, 2009
Well, in your mad dash in your younger days to get Mr. Dangerous and Mr. Muscles and all that silliness, you ignored them, even ran over them with your car to get to Mr. Bad Boy. Now, they are taken or are cynical.
by shrek on December 28th, 2008
with their gay lovers - no offense
by vincentcent on January 5th, 2009
they have given up.
by jbrecken on January 2nd, 2009
Personally, I'm wondering where to find available single women 35-40 without kids or ex-husbands. It seems like everyone else is on at least their second marriage and I haven't even gotten a first.
by angry_onion on December 15th, 2008
In prison serving a life sentence all over the world...
by Sidhedarkness on December 15th, 2008
They're batting for the pink team, dear. And don't you dare try to take them.
by CaRbOnPrOdUcK is Baccuss on December 15th, 2008
I'm sorry, did you need a few?
by tom_bishop on September 29th, 2009
I can tell you where we are. We're trying to find you but we have no idea where you are. We try to be involved with things and do more traveling now. Sadly we never seem to run into you. I wish I knew where to find you. No we're not interested in girls that are in their early to mid 20's. That's just silly. We like women who are confident and know who they are. Us single men are out there. Keep looking because we're looking for you!
PS NO we're not at gay bars.
by DudeLer 2 on August 31st, 2009
they are working nine to five. they are on their bikes after work, or roller blading, or jogging, or at home online.
by Howard Rourk on July 2nd, 2009
I agree with Old School. I'm 34, single and have never been married. I've been in many long-term relationships with women that I continue to maintain friendships with to this day. Some of the biggest issues I have encountered in dating over the last year:
- people that don't understand that money is not the key to happiness in life. I've had dates that ask questions that are clearly trying to determine wealth status (do you own or rent, type of car, etc.). Even if your questions are subtle (where do you vacation, what do you do for a living), if your intentions are to find a man with money, it won't go unnoticed long. And if the guy doesn't care, and likes using his money to pick up women, then guaranteed, it's not the man you want.
- rushing it. The 35-50 age range has had many relationships and know better than to just fall in love after 1 date. It's great to be excited and looking forward to date 2, but don't drop lines like "we should go grocery shopping together at this great place" or "I would love to have you come to my cousin's party this weekend". Too much, too soon.
- sex on the first date. I love women and I love sex and will enjoy every moment of the experience if per chance we end up having sex on the first date, but I will have a different perception of you than I would have if we would have kissed and I was left wanting more that night and the next morning.
I could go on, but that's the Big 3. The other 47 will be coming out later this Fall on the Oxygen network and through Oprah's book club. Good Luck!!
by Sosueme on March 8th, 2009
I am.....pick me, pick me!!
by snow dog on March 8th, 2009
I am a 46 year old woman. Three years ago I found my 32 year old boyfriend when he came over with three other guys to do some remodeling. I cooked them dinner and then went out with them as friends for about a month before making my selection. I could not be happier. None of them had children, girlfriends, or wives. He was the youngest of the three and the least good looking. I suggest stop looking for someone good looking and superficial. Start by talking to men and finding out who they are inside first. Look for someone who is working a trade instead of mr smooth talking playboy. Look at the inside package. You shouldn't have any trouble finding these men. From what I found out they are at the oriental all you can eat every night after work or at the neighborhood bar eating a filet steak sandwich with a couple of beers before going home to bed.
If you are there around dinner time you will find them. Or Find something to remodel. Most of the Older well to do gentlemen take the 25-35 year old women off the market so there are millions of these hard working good men who have given up on finding a woman at all.
The conception that they aren't out there just isn't true. A man with a child isn't going to be out playing pool on a weeknight, or eating at the all you can eat buffet, or having a couple of beers with a sandwich at the lion's club every night. Be Brave.
Talk to him or offer to cook him a meal. He'll be your best friend for life. PS also ....stop chasing cute guys who are too busy primping in front of the mirror to ever be that into you in the first place!!!
by Uncle Rick on February 12th, 2009
Well I'm single, no kids, British, straight, not in prison and available!! 37 by the way.
by The Wraith of God is Coming on January 5th, 2009
I am right here 200 pounds 6ft but I can't find a stable woman.
by Waiting for Illumination on January 5th, 2009
Down in their basements playing WoW or having cybersex on Second Life.
by Blackberry. on January 5th, 2009
They are probably enjoying being single, childless bachelors. Hence them not looking to be tied down by serious relationships.
by Dejavu on January 5th, 2009
You are looking for men,not all men are men,you need real man.man that will give you rest of mind .
Man will say what you want to hear not what they really want to say.
if you need man,find the real man.He is on his way .
Wishing you a more blessed and purposeful 2009
by James on January 2nd, 2009
At that age range, what would it matter if he had a child? Likely the child(ren) would be getting ready to head out of the home in the first place...
by creamywhip on January 2nd, 2009
im 36 and love being single no kids its all good
by nobodyyouknow on January 2nd, 2009
I am 37 and single. I love women and have no kids.
Come and get me!!!!!!!!!
by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on December 28th, 2008
I will meet that era in a few years. A single man who no children ever.
by Aksafari on December 28th, 2008
They live in Iceland. All the volcanism makes men sterile.
by Pword on December 28th, 2008
God only knows?? But if you find where they are hiding.... please let us know!!!
by mizuiislife on December 15th, 2008
Great question. I ask myself the same question all the time. I think that most men in this age bracket are already married, or divorced men with children. I knew one single man in his late thirties who had gotten a divorce who never had kids, but he turned out to be an alchoholic with sever emotional and mental problems.
Would you consider dating a man that was in his late twenties or early thirties?
by gtravels loves her life penguin on December 15th, 2008
You're probably going to find a lot more men if you're open to the possibility of them having children.
by Firemarshall on December 15th, 2008
In their parent's basements.
by Macmedic and yet ... here I am on August 29th, 2009
actually Pittsburgh
by Omar Little on July 3rd, 2009
They're hiding from women who have very specific checklists in their hands.
by Wind Walker on March 8th, 2009
Got to hang out where they hang out. Golf courses,racquet clubs. Depends on the kind of man you want. I like what I call mountain men. Outdoorsy,hunter,fisherman,log cabins... So I got on a boat in Alaska for fishing excursions. Worked! Found my mountain man.
by QueueTea on January 5th, 2009
Probably on the internet bemoaning their difficulty in getting a girlfriend.
by shady on January 5th, 2009
I'm 52 but I'm in Texas
by NotAnonymous on January 5th, 2009
prison.
by Cognition aka Cog on January 2nd, 2009
When you find out could you hook a girl up?
by 1858 Remington 1-21-13 on December 28th, 2008
Probably at the shootin' range.
by ettenan on December 15th, 2008
on the grave..;-)
by chiism1 is gone 4 good on December 15th, 2008
are there unavailable single men? hehe
by rooster on January 5th, 2009
check out the groomsmen at weddings there are plenty there.
by Candygirl on January 5th, 2009
Well you have already got some great answers, I will add that I agree with prison, gay, still living at home with their momma, or something is just wrong with them. Also it will be hard to find a normal straight man in that age range that doesn't have any children. Good luck to you!!! Alot of them are probably really self involved either in work or a hobby. So check at sporting events,like football, baseball, hockey, golf course, race tracks or sit in your car in the parking lot and start stalking the men at law firms and hospitals.
by loves.CSI.vegas on January 5th, 2009
I heard that was an urban legend...
by Cyanotic Wasp on January 2nd, 2009
Living at home with their own mothers.
by UneFille on December 28th, 2008
Yes.
by Mephistopheles on January 2nd, 2009
They're all either married or gay
by Eleni wears her b-e-a-utiful green COAT. on January 5th, 2009
I heard they were all in Vegas either finding some one to change the whole single thing, or getting to work on the whole 'no children' part.
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by Macmedic and yet ... here I am on August 29th, 2009