cause usually guys would prefer to screw there girlfriend more than there mates (he-he-he)

Should they put their wives before their friends?

Do I detect some jealousy? "Best friends" are usually "best friends" forever, even IF a guy has a girlfriend or wife, whether they get together as much after one gets one or not. Of course, if one does get a gf/wife, SHE should come first for various reasons, and the "best" friend CAN become envious or jealous. That doesn't mean they still are best friends, just that they don't get together as much any more. WHY should SHE come before the "best friend"? Because SHE could become the wife... Because SHE will most-likely know more about him than you (especially if they do or have had sex)... Because he may end up living with HER, and not you. You should be happy that your "best" friend has a s/o. If they DO include you in some of the things they do (concerts, sports, bowling, movies, etc.) you will feel (and probably should, at least a little) a tag-along. Even so, they should try to make sure you feel included in those times. You DO have to give them some space to be together without you. It doesn't matter if they have had, are having, or WILL have sex... YOU don't need to know, and probably shouldn't be told by either. It shouldn't matter WHAT they do together - just that your "best friend" is happy. (This, after all, should be included in the definition of ALL "best friends".) Jealousy WILL cause a major rift in friendships... especially, if the one without one exhibits jealousy and envy. NOTE: I put quotes around "best" or "best friend" on purpose. A "Best Friend" will NOT be jealous and demand equal time with a friend who now has a girl friend. A "Best Friend" will NOT be jealous that a ... GIRL ... has usurped his friend's friendship. A "Best Friend" will be there when his friend needs to talk about the relationship, will NOT tell the friend he should "dump her" for himself, but only if she's doing things she shouldn't do, and the "best friend" has told you and asks for your opinion. A "best friend" doesn't get upset when a guy chooses another friend (or brother) to be his Best Man at a wedding - He will do all he can to help and try to make his "best friend's" wedding as best as it can possibly be. (Oh, and it goes without saying that a "best friend", while he may find the girl attractive, and love her as much as his friend does, WILL NOT seduce her, or allow anything untoward to happen between her and himself. The same goes for girls and their "best friends", too. Whether she stays in your "best friend's" life or not, YOU will always be a "best friend" unless you allow your jealousy and envy to get the best of you, and YOU cause the major rift between you and him. Learn to like her. Learn to get along without always being with your "best friend". Life happens. Get over it. I hope you heed some of the advice you get from here. "Best friends" will ALWAYS be there. At times, girls may come into the friends' lives, and separate them, but that doesn't mean they are not best friends. That means that YOUR friend has his priorities straight. Do you? Good luck. ;-)