do you remember rosie form the jetsons that is the ideal woman obedient...why do you ask?

For me, It comes down to trust and commitment... and (the man) SHOWING it. By making sure my wife sees these being offered by me, I hope that she feels more confident and less insecure. .. which is how I want her to be, because thats how I am. Without her confidence and sense of security, the relationship is imbalanced. Although some people dont mind this imbalance, its not for me. So maybe If the man wants a relationship where she feels confident and secure, she might have to remind him ( because to some men it isnt obvious) that he should provide her with a sense of trust and commitment. (Im just thinking aloud here, and may have simplified it too much).

I realized that self esteem is called "self" esteem for a reason. It doesn't matter who you are with to an extent. But You shouldn't have to depend on a man to make you feel better about yourself. You should have more of an arrogant, narcissistic attitude about yourself. You have to think like your mate wants you and no one else. You have to treat them like you dont want to lose them. If you are always hard on yourself, you limit yourself and your emotions towards your mate. Thats just my opinion though, I hope something I said can help you out. Basically just dont be so hard on yourself. In some cases there are men that severly lower a womans confidence with verbal and physical abuse. But if your mate isn't treating you like you are hot shuff, then leave him.

I am speaking for myself and not all men. I want my girl to look and act in a very feminine way. I like a girl to let me open doors for her, carry things for her, etc. and not get offended by it because she knows it is easier for me to do the physical task. I like my girl to dress in a very feminine way as well. The more often I saw her in dresses and skirts the better. In a perfect world, I would never see my girl in a pair of jeans.

I would want you to trust me and let me show you that you were everything to me. At the same time I'd want you to feel safe with me and not smother me. I'd always be there, you wouldn't have to fear losing me. I'd be sure you knew that.

Confidence is key, not only in a relationship, but in life in general. For example, don't be the type of woman who needs an opinion, "does this dress look good?" etc. Also, if theres something you want to do, just let him know, but guys tend to seek reasons for things, and women should have a reason for wanting something, or not wanting something. Simple things like this can present one as a confident individual, which is, at least in my opinion, very attractive. It's too bad to see a good woman with a guy who's treating her badly or doing her wrong, and she's just like "well, i can't talk to him" or "it's not his fault he does't understand", those types of women need more confidence, and need to understand why they feel the way they do and project it accordingly and appropriately.

look at yourself in the mirror and like what you see because we do, whatever you look like you can wear it well, and your the only one who knows how to dress your part. I like to be a gentleman too grabbin doors an all so try to expect that, and just be ladylike and enjoy being a woman.

It's baffling why they aren't more confident. You don't have to be a supermodel to get a guy. Media has totally messed with woman's minds. Just be happy with who you are. Men have insecurities about our physical appearance too, but we just accept it and move on, we don't dwell obsessively over it. The differences between men and women are astounding for us both being the same species lol. For the love of god women stop taking everything so seriously in relationships. Men are so simple you over think the simplest actions we do. You have no idea how confusing and frustrating it is when you think we "should just know" everything you are thinking. One day everything is all good. Then the next day you are mad, but don't say anything. So we argue back and forth as the man is trying to figure out what the hell just happened within 12 hours to piss you off, and you don't even give us a straight answer. No more of that "you know what I'm talking about..." BS. I guess all I can say is keep it simple. Don't make things complicated by dwelling on what it means when your man tells you he really likes you then have your mind go down all these avenues wondering what it means. If he loves you, he will tell, forcing him to say it will just complicate his feelings and then when he says he realizes he didn't really love you, you get mad because "he said it" but you don't even realize that you squeezed it out of him when he wasn't even ready to say it.

keep us happy in bed 247, never say no, please.

It's been said before but deserves repeating. Men like women to be open and straight forward. We don't take hints well. If you want to know what we think, ask but don't over analyze our answers. If you don't understand or our answer is ambiguous, let us know and we will try to rephrase it. Don't test us just to test us. If my wife asked 'if we weren't married, would you date (insert best friend, sister, waitress)' and I said YES, she would accept that answer as truthful and not threatening to our relationship. But what would be the reason in asking such a pointless question? yet another test... except in the case of my wife, she would just be exploring my psyche.