Does it matter how many people your love interest has slept with?
by 
Vampire_Heart
ANSWERS: 14
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Absolutely not. Do you love each other? That's the answer.
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Neither one of us was the other person's first. I figure I'm the beneficiary of his experience, and vice versa.
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no but it did make me feel insecure about my skills at first. i feel better now though. way more confident.
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Not at all... the past is history, the future may never happen... Live in today, that is all we have...
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No not at all. It's all in the past, who cares what was before, I'm in the here and now and it's me she is with. You'll do your head in being hung up on things like that.
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nope
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If you are concerned, find out before you get intimate. If it is a deal breaker for you, tell her then and not later. Once you get intimate, it's too late to ask those questions. Find out first. But, if you miss your chance, then it's too bad for you and then you need to deal with it.
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I do like the fact that she's been with fewer people than I have. +3
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Not as long as they didn't bring anything with them.. (if you know what I mean).
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It bugs me a bit if its a high number, completely outweighing me. But its something that can generally be overlooked since I love him.
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Not a bit. I'm well aware that she had multiple partners before me, and it does not bother me in the least.
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Well, if she's fully committed to you now, and as far as you can tell free of any lingering effects from her past partners then I don't see an issue. If it's a major hang up for you, however, then maybe your relationship is going to have a rocky foundation.
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honestly, no. the only thing that i want to know is if they are clean from stds. it's not important. the present is more important.
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If it doesn't matter how many for the guy, why does it matter for the girl? These are modern days. Personally, I wanted a wife who was hot as I am and loved sex like I do. IF that is true, they she has had other men and it doesn't bother me a bit. I never think of it.
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